but he tells me i should be happy that he loves my body even when im crying he still does it please help me and no mean answers thankyou
2007-08-12 18:21:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
RAPE! Don't let him treat you this way. you need to reconsider marrying this man. I don't want to think of what you would likely have to suffer through in the future at his hands.
If you (why?) still want to be with him, you need to work on building your self-respect (cuz he sure isn't going to do it). Start by telling him what you have heard here, "it's Rape". and if he just laughs it off, as he likely will, call the police and let them explain it to him!
Good Luck... BE STRONG!
2007-08-12 19:39:30 · answer #1 · answered by Mikez Bad Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What your fiance is doing is f*cking disgusting.
He has no right to treat you like this.
The fact he loves your body means just that: he loves your body. Obviously he doesn't give a sh*t about the rest of you.
Drop the f*cker like a rock. You deserve so much better.
Abuse, rape, assault: they're what he is committing.
Please check the link I've provided below. It may be able to help you, and give you support if you need it.
good luck =)
2007-08-13 02:54:24 · answer #2 · answered by coryinc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is very wrong if he does it while you are crying. This is abuse-possibly could be considered rape. This really should make you question why you want to marry this person. A person who would make you have sex when you don't want to and are crying...I can't even imagine that they would be a good husband.
2007-08-12 18:30:12 · answer #3 · answered by luvspoodles 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's rape. Get out of there. Don't marry a man like that! Don't you want to be with a man who wants to make you happy? If he truly loved you he would never hurt you like that. Love yourself and get out. Call the police and leave asap.
2007-08-13 13:42:17 · answer #4 · answered by Fashionista 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey that is rape no matter how you look at it. If you said no and were crying he needs to respect you and stop. I would tell him if he can't take no for an answer you will break up with him. If you do. Then report him for rape.
2007-08-12 18:43:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is messed up. Even if you're in a relationship, it is rape. Do you really want to put up with a man that doesn't respect you for the rest of your life. Leave him and find someone better! Yes, you can find someone better even if he tells you you can't!
2007-08-12 18:31:13 · answer #6 · answered by wondermermaid 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, you need to get away from him. And in the nicest way I can say this.... show some self respect hun and let no one treat you that way. NOW.
2007-08-12 18:58:43 · answer #7 · answered by ellen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahhh sorry this is rape pure and simple ---- kick sorry body to the kerb and call the police and have him charged ---- he does not care for you in the least ---- best wishes and please leave him and never speak to him again
2007-08-12 18:29:50 · answer #8 · answered by trader1867 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋