When suspicious your lover is cheating what have you done?

Question

to check it out? What made you suspicious

Answer 1

The way he was acting. He was suddenly really lovable, we just know. Its like an instinct or something, but we just know. I waited for the evidence, then confronted him...

Answer 2

I did some sneaky surveillance with a friend of mine to see what was going on and I asked him straight out what he was doing. I became suspicious when his "friend" was calling him on a work cell phone that even I didn't have the number to.

Answer 3

My ex husband told me that he was staying at his "Friends" house because he needed time to think. I told him that I would go stay with a friend so he could stay at our house to "think"....Well, I knew exactly where he would go if I was gone.....to his "friends" house. I just drove there and waalaa...there he was.........What made me suspicious......he was not coming home. Told me he fell asleep on the job site once......that was suspicious.

Answer 4

Turned a blind eye. Yes I admit it, but it got to a point that I couldn't and I asked to see his phone. When he refused I said that if he had nothing to hide then it shouldn't be a problem. He gave his phone, I found my answer. He would get calls and say shifty things, not be where he says he's going to be, even showed up one night with a car that wasn't his. "friend" my fanny!

Answer 5

Cheated. Then lived to regret it. The revenge was not worth it. He flirted a lot, and told me about one affair he'd had. I was young and immature. I shouldn't have done what I did.

Answer 6

I ran a sting on him. He took the bait.

Suspicious? He gave me a disc of photos. 3 were of a sunset WE hadn't seen together.

Answer 7

I made him introduce me to everyone he worked with.
I don't do the whole go through peoples things routine.

Answer 8

1. have you guys ever seen the show "cheaters?"
2. he was on it

Answer 9

I stopped coming around.. it's not worth it...