I tried to meds the doc gave me but I end up over sleeping the weekend. I wake up feeling like I miss my boyfriend. My life is just miserable without him. It's took late because we broke up and he married someon else and is long gone. I have two study for my courses but I don't think I can concentrate. I just feel miserable.
2007-08-12 14:57:04 · 10 answers · asked by Eva Selena 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
PAUL C, I have no idea what you're talking about. I never had a fling or affair. You're insulting insinuation is hurtful. I hope you fry in hell.
2007-08-19 17:23:45 · update #1
Gosh, I have so much I'd wany to say to you, firstly, I'm a woman in my early thirties who'd like to start a support gruop (went through a horrible divorce) So if you'd be be interested (or any one else feel free to e-mail me. Second I must say that the more I reflect the more I realize that 'All pains are growing pains' that as difficult as this is, we must be able to create decent lives for our selves regardless of whether we have a lover to validate us or not , because the real,scary truth is that if we aren't o-k with our selves as we are, no one else will be .We shouldn't need a man to validate our precious worth!! This is not to say that we don't all need companionship, soul mates etc. G-d after all did create man and women to be partners for life, but untill that special person comes along we need to be our own soul mates to the best of our abilities. So, as far as concentrating in school goes, we've got to do what ever we can to help our selves. if ten medications didn't work, the eleventh just might or the twelth! They're always coming up with inovative therapies. Trust me I know and feel with you. I'm really an exceptionally private person but I would like to help, so again you can e-mail me if you'd like more info. The best of Luck!
2007-08-12 17:57:35 · answer #1 · answered by Fly... 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I can understand your pain and all I can say is time heals everything. If you love him then it will take a lot of effort by you to get over him. Maybe the fact that he does not love you as much as you do could help you get over it.I hope you recover soon. Be patient. Things get better eventually. Concentrate on other stuff like your studies. Do not compromise on them because of your love life.
2007-08-12 15:08:14 · answer #2 · answered by ConfidentSmartass 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One day ( time heals) a time will come when you will look back on it and wondered why you put so much heart into it. Appreciate the time you had as a genuine time together. Now you have to move on and treat youself much better. Give yourself a new look, this will cheer you up and pass your courses this will really make you feel good. Speak to your doctor too as this step is important to give you strength. One day someone will come along and you will think the world of them and they of you.
2007-08-20 05:19:52 · answer #3 · answered by VelvetRose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go see the doctor again. Try different meds. Go to a talk therapist. Get help somehow.
I've had depression and reading about Buddha and meditating helps a lot, along with yoga.
2007-08-12 15:09:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give your meds a few more days. If the side-effects don't go away, see your dr. and ask him to change them.
You need to get over this chump. He didn't deserve you, didn't know what a good thing he had. So now you get to look around, look for someone better than him. Because that's what YOU deserve.
TX Mom
not a dr.
2007-08-19 14:18:38 · answer #5 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You haven't been carrying a torch for him for a long time, have you? It's time to snap out of it now. There's always a reason for everything and you are going to thank your lucky stars some day for not getting hooked up permanently with him. Trust me and remember, the best revenge is to live well.
2007-08-12 15:09:02 · answer #6 · answered by jacquie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
aww honey just like i told u in ur other post.... dont worry it'll pass soon. My mom got divorced from her first bf cuz he played her. She was crying a lot and suffering. but she realize that it will pass. cuz not everything last forever. there are many men out there that really likes you... and the guy that he will have you, he will be very lucky to have you. cuz i can tell that ur a special girl. just keep doing ur studies cuz u have a future in front of u,. k mami?:) just keep doing ur thing... and dont let nobody stop u not even ur ex... get him out of ur mind cuz u can:) prove him wrong... prove him that u can continue with ur life... ok luv? well i hope this helps!
2007-08-14 04:53:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are here to live life just the way that you are living it until you decide to do otherwise.
Call upon your tremendous innate energy and fix yourself!
You don't need us.
2007-08-20 10:13:24 · answer #8 · answered by Starte Christ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait til you see just how cheap your little fling all was. Then you'll feel depressed about how silly you've been.
2007-08-19 16:01:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sing it out loud, every time you feel sad. i think music is the best med against depression
2007-08-18 12:05:53 · answer #10 · answered by hein 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋