Like, i am so jealous if she going out with her boyfriend or her other friend. What's going on with me???
2007-08-12 14:44:07 · 10 answers · asked by miya 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
maybe you just really like her. you know. i mean as in liking her more than a friend. yeah, i know it sounds creepy. but i think it's true.
it's weird that you asked this because one time i felt exactly like you did. i decided it was wrong and moved on though.
2007-08-12 14:55:01 · answer #1 · answered by j o s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're used to doing a lot of things with her, so you're just missing her a lot and feeling left out. You have to remember though, that everyone has multiple friends. And it's not wrong for your best friend to see other friends or even her boyfriend.
You don't want to run her off by being too possessive about your friendship either. And it might be a good time to find more friends to hang around with too. that way, the friendship between you grows, and you will talk more about the things that you both do.
Trust me, that has happened to a couple of friends of mine. It gets weird, and you'll start looking too weird if you become too possessive about your friendship.
2007-08-12 14:50:34 · answer #2 · answered by mochikogirl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is not wrong but you probably need to find/live a life that does not require you to prop on someone else in order to feel whole.What is happening is that your self esteem is low and when your friend goes out you feel that you have no one else to fill the vacuum left and so you become jealous maybe because you also don't have someone to ask you out.
Jealousy by itself is not wrong but you need to see that it does not become uncontrollable for it points to you a deeper issue in your life which you need to deal with and that is developing your social aspect.Your are doing it on the internet,like the way I'm replying to your queries and so you can also extend it to your neighbors, workmates,acquaintances etc.
Good luck miya.
2007-08-12 18:12:40 · answer #3 · answered by michael k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's not really wrong it's just kinda weird. You shouldn't be obsessed with a person to the point your possessive, she has a life too. Why don't you hang out with other people.
2007-08-12 14:48:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds normal. Just find another friend that you can all hang out together with, and when your other friend goes out with her boyfriend, then you other two can hang out.
2007-08-16 09:55:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are deeply touched with her, howev er examine yourself if you are on the opposite sex. That was one of the caused. If you are of the same sex, over zealous is against good etiquette.
jtm
2007-08-12 14:52:07 · answer #6 · answered by Jesus M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's envy not possessiveness.
You want to go out with her boyfriend.
If you want to save yourself pain and suffering, stay away from both of them until you grow up.
2007-08-12 14:52:45 · answer #7 · answered by Imogen Sue 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to make more friends because it sounds like you're investing too much energy and attention with just one person.
2007-08-12 14:47:18 · answer #8 · answered by Aphrika 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Nothing, just get a life...then hers wont affect you so badly.
2007-08-12 14:47:09 · answer #9 · answered by Simply Kai 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Change your self .
2007-08-13 02:20:30 · answer #10 · answered by Jacky.- the "INDIAN". 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋