how do you deal with a situation where somebody tries to control you & impose upon you in a threatening way?

Question

trying to intimidate you and make you submissive or passive?

how can you deal with this if you struggle to assert yourself, you dont have alot of confidence,your not an extrovert, plus you dont wanna lose control or get yourself in trouble or be in trouble with the law ?

call this situation being bullied as an adult..

how do you effectively deal with it?

i.e ~ another male adult staring at you in a confrontational way.....

remember you dont wanna get into trouble or be arrested....so howd you deal with it?

Answer 1

If you don't know this person, then you might be judging them totally wrong...this is judging a person by their outward appearance, and you probably don't like them to do that to you, and that is a fact..so you have to stop and think about it for a minute..is this someone you know? turn your head, put your head down, and don't give in to looking back at them..they may have gas or something and are straining to hold it in LOL

Answer 2

Don't entertain the asshole no more...Get on with what you wanna do with others who don't feel good when it comes like bullying a soul.

Now, just a passing thought, but please don't take it seriously. ok?. Here it is...If it comes to an extend that the damnful asshole is still making your life so unbearable...Aha !

1. Make a catapult...
2. Use ball bearings
3. Dip the ball bearings in cynide for a couple of days
4.. Use hand gloves
5. Watch his movements i.e, the places he use to hang out.
6. Choose a place where the crowd is not too big
7. Station yourself somewhere close by, not obtrusively
8. And take a real' good aim, the head is the target.........Aha !
9. Leave the chaotic place you had created calmly.
10. Go on with life like nothing has happen.....

Answer 3

To answer you question directly, this person is trying to gain power over you, for what reason I have no idea.
The way you view yourself, (see yourself), is as a weak person. Stop doing that. You have as much personal power as anyone else. You are trying to "fit into", a group that I expect you have very little in common with. You say you don't want to get in trouble with the law, or go to jail. So they must be doing something that might get you into that problem.
Get away from those people, become your own man, seek out friends that you have things in common with. Live your own life.

Answer 4

If you feel you have to stay around this person that's bullying you, like let's say your spouse, then you just need to pick your battles. Don't submit to all things but bend over for things that don't count much to you. It will make the bully think they are in charge most of the time and they really are not. If they are pushing you to do things that are not legal or good for your well being you need to get a back bone and JUST SAY NO!

Answer 5

Let him know, in the least-threatening way possible, that you will not tolerate what he is doing to you. If possible, get someone else into the situation without looking like a coward. If all else fails and he simply won't quit, threaten him with a lawsuit. It will let him know that you are serious about this situation. If he won't quit, FOLLOW THROUGH with your threat. If you don't, it will only signal to him that you are a pushover. Don't be afraid to pull the law into it, because it is safer than a physical fight.

Answer 6

hi, i'm very sorry you're in this occasion, sounds like a nightmare that isn't end. The police can assist you, yet once you do not sense you may bypass to them, please touch your nearest women persons's look after, they are going to be waiting to provide you preparation, help, and suggestions. you do not could pass into the look after to obtain help. you additionally can report for a restraining order throughout the time of a similar criminal expert you used to your divorce (an option to contemplate). I strongly motivate you to touch a women persons's look after however, they can assist you. If there is not a look after on the city you reside in, seek (information superhighway, yellow pages, or itemizing suggestions) interior the subsequent nearest city. suitable of success and peace be with you.

Answer 7

You say 'Leave me the f*ck alone or I'll kill you as soon as you turn your back.' Unless there are witnesses or he has a tape recorder on him there's no way you can be arrested. If he tries to get physical, fight dirty (bite a chunk out of him, dig his eyes out, do serious and irreparable damage; grab something heavy and bash his head in, etc.) because you can say it was self defense. If you are being bullied the only other way to get out of it is to leave the situation altogether and never go back.

Answer 8

You don't deal with somebody Else's bull crap. that is their pile you don't need to step into it. the question is great, but in reality you are asking. "what do i do about a situation that is unacceptable, and how do I change that" the answer, you can't. there are no compromises, sacrifices, rewards, just alot of challenge, with nothing to gain. Good Luck

Answer 9

Walk off and stay away from that person. Never give them the satisfaction of knowing they intimdate you. Get that "dribble" out of your life. Life is too short to tolerate a bully.

Answer 10

Tell them sarcastically, "you gotta be kidding me or that you must be getting punk-ed." "Where is the camera?" Let them know that you are not to be trifled with. That they need to find someone who gives a f--- and then walk off. Cynicism works also.