and saying rude things that make her feel ugly should i confront him about it and tell him to stop?
2007-08-12 13:42:20 · 16 answers · asked by Jessie J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Getting into the middle of that is a lose-lose situation. She will hate you and he will hate you and their relationship will not improve as a result of your getting involved.
2007-08-12 13:46:26 · answer #1 · answered by Rich Z 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him when your friend's not around and tell it to him straight. is he trying to make her break up with him. does he know they make her feel ugly, does he joke? joking is still bad, especially when it makes someone feel that horrible. does she tell you that it makes her feel ugly? does she say something back to him? does she tell you how she feels in private? maybe you could talk to her about it and see if she wants to confront him. if she doesn't, u should, someone has to. cuz that is just mean.
2007-08-12 13:48:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, "she" needs to confront him about it and make him stop.
You saying something isn't going to make 1 bit of difference.
Except to let him know that it "does" bother her, and then he'll keep doing it.
You just need to keep telling "her" that she needs to do something about it.
Tell her you thought she was stronger than that, that she shouldn't be putting up with that crap.
She's the only one that can put a stop to it !
2007-08-12 13:49:05 · answer #3 · answered by MommaBear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him and her. Tell her he obviously isn't good for her if he doesn't appreciate her for who she is now. Tell him he is a major douche bag and you don't want him to even think about her ever again.
2007-08-12 13:48:06 · answer #4 · answered by annie_atetheworld 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No do not do that!!!
ur friends bf will be so mad, and yell at ur friend for telling u, or even worse it can become abusive.
the best thing for u to do right ow is to tell ur friend to break up with him before he become controling and or abusive.
Good luck
-NR
2007-08-12 13:48:59 · answer #5 · answered by Natasha R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah but i dont think it'll make a difference. that is the kind of person he is and no one will be able to change him. your friend will wake up eventually hopefully cause there are so many better men out there that will treat her good.
2007-08-12 13:47:22 · answer #6 · answered by trixydafairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes! I think you should let him know that YOU don't think your friend likes him saying whatever he's saying. Tell him you wouldn't like it and she seems uncomfortable about it. Don't let him know that she's saying she doesn't like it though or he could say "then why doesn't she confront me herself" or he could talk to her about it and that could cause problems. But DEFINETLY talk to him.
2007-08-12 13:47:35 · answer #7 · answered by Kelsie A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe as a friend. But, why is your friend with this creep? That's who you should be confronting.
2007-08-12 13:47:35 · answer #8 · answered by Shon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont do that that just might make your friend despise you if he breaks up with her instead you should talk to your friend and ask her why she is putting up with this treatment a person only treats you how you let tham treat you tell her that she doesnt deserve it and learn to speak up for herself he wont take her seriously if you tell him
2007-08-12 13:48:09 · answer #9 · answered by dwat45 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes! u to do the right thing and tell him something if she wontand shelll c wat kind of friend u r! and he should have left him by now if hes treating her that way! get him n check gurl!
2007-08-12 13:48:02 · answer #10 · answered by hopein 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋