i know who i am now but my question is how do i come out and tell my wife and my friends? i have never had that many friends to begin with and i don't want to lose the ones i have. and i certainly don't want to lose my wife over this.or my family. and they are mostly christian they would disown me if they knew! should i just keep it to myself and keep living like i have been? how do i talk about this to everyone that i love?
2007-08-12 13:22:34 · 13 answers · asked by ? 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Ok. I'm bisexual and out. Funny coming from a 14-year-old...
So here's what I would do. Tell close friends first in a really calm manner one at a time. After you've had success with that, move on to your family. I would suggest doing that one at a time, too. Preferably start with your wife, she'll probably be more understanding. After that, let your wife tell the children and sometimes there is an initial shock, but this should ware off after a day or two.
Just remember there is no rush to come out as soon as possible, and stick to who you are. No matter what, be honest with them and be honest with yourself.
2007-08-12 13:32:10 · answer #1 · answered by Matt 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I thnk you will be able to desire to give up experimenting, grow to be a frontrunner on your team of buddies and coach them the variation between woman and male. There are not any bisexuals. There are human beings who expeience exhilaration from somebody of the comparable intercourse, yet that's no longer the organic order of issues. Sexual exhilaration grow to be created for the purpose of residing issues reproducing. It makes you opt to have intercourse and create yet another residing situation. It grow to be no longer meant basically for exhilaration. regrettably there are human beings who now have faith we are like animals that don't understand any distinction. we are Human and don't think of like animals. So the term Bi sexual is incredibly a fallicy. i think gay dispositions could be extra precise. your loved ones could desire to understand, and all and sundry could desire to talk approximately it. there are recommendations on your situation yet you will no longer get them right here.
2016-10-10 02:23:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it might be easier for you to stick to loving your wife. Coming out as bi even if your married has serious risks involved. Your wife may not trust you hanging out with other men. I think you'll be better off in the long run.
2007-08-12 17:02:27 · answer #3 · answered by A Journey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well start by telling a few people like ur wife and ur family, then move on to ur friends. Try to be as concise and honest as u can. Also make sure that people are clear that ur fine with urself and that it doesn't change who u are as a person.
2007-08-12 13:34:27 · answer #4 · answered by Selym 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't think being bisexual is really as mind blowing as being gay so I'd keep it in the closet. I mean, who really needs to know that you like to have your cake and eat it too? To me being bi is more like a swinging lifestyle, while being totally gay implies belonging to a whole other culture.
2007-08-12 13:28:52 · answer #5 · answered by mysterygirl 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If your wife really loves you she won't care.... I know some married bisexual guys and their wives don't care at all.
2007-08-12 13:53:49 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
you are married that means you are supposed to be faithful.you also know homosexuality is an abomination to GOD. you need to get in counseling with your wife and save your marriage.jump off the gay band wagon! you need to stop thinking like this people choose to do things you need to choose to be a faithful husband! grow up!
2007-08-12 13:46:50 · answer #7 · answered by dixie58 7 · 1⤊ 4⤋
You might be better served by keeping your mouth shut.
2007-08-12 13:29:46 · answer #8 · answered by jennysmith0214 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
just tell everyone when you feel the time is right. Then it should be easy for you and more comfortable.
2007-08-12 13:33:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Keep it in the closet, bigtime
2007-08-12 13:26:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋