My mate is cheating on her boyfriend. And the boyfriend really loves her. He is a decent guy and a very good person. Problem is that he hangs out with us even when she out with the other guy and its getting harder making excuses for her when she is not around. All our girlafriends think we should tell him. What do you's think? Should we or shouldn't we?
2007-08-12 13:16:24 · 8 answers · asked by juz_nicky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would not tell him. However, make no more excuses for her either. Continue to hang out with him and make him feel welcome if you like him and enjoy his company. If he asks where she is, just tell him that you do not know. Ask why he doesn't know where she is, since she is HIS girlfriend. He will catch on soon enough.
2007-08-12 13:21:35 · answer #1 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh don't....i got involved with my friend and her bf's problem and it turned out horribly. And when I say don't get involved I also mean don't make up excuses for her anymore. All i would suggest doing is telling her that she needs to tell him or stop cheating...but don't tell him anything. i know it's hard especially since he loves her so much and seems to be a good friend to you. but you have to deal with it because in the end it will be better that you stayed out of it.
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2007-08-12 20:23:54 · answer #2 · answered by justagirl. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he catches her cheating on him by himself the results will be awful. but also hearing it from a friend will be hard to take but still not as bad. you need to tell him. but beware. most likely the friend will suspect one of your girlfriends and if she is the vengeful type i'd watch out, she'll be so blinded by anger she'll put aside the fact that she was doing a terrible, hurtful, selfish thing and try to hurt you back.
tell him and let him break up with her on his own. ask him not to tell your friend that you told him.
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2007-08-12 20:27:27 · answer #3 · answered by ♥hollyboll♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him but maybe hint it. Don't make the hints obvious though, just make it so he might be able to see whats going on. All in all though this is their business so don't jump into something unless you know what you're doing. Maybe talk to her and make her see how bad it could be hurting him.
2007-08-12 20:33:25 · answer #4 · answered by annie_atetheworld 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest talking to this girl first... see if you can't get her to see how stupid she's being. And, if there's no give on her end, than yes, it's only fair to her boyfriend that he knows. If things get really serious and they get even closer, it's only going to hurt him tremendously once he does find out.
2007-08-12 20:24:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No don't say anything but maybe get soemone to take some pictures of your friend with her new man and then put them in her boyfirends letter box to look at for himself.
2007-08-12 20:23:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
stay out of it cause youll regret later on
2007-08-12 20:47:41 · answer #7 · answered by king 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM
ITS BOTH RIGHT THING TO HIM
BECAUSE HE DOES REALLY NEED HER IF SHE DOING THAT
2007-08-12 20:31:06 · answer #8 · answered by ♥wh♥tஐAre♥U♥Lஐஐking?ஐALEXANDRAஐஐ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋