My bf cheated on me with another girl, and i was heartbroken, but i didnt dump him, and i gave him another chance. I just cant seem to let him go. I love him. Am i being to nice?? All my friends seem to think so. Its different when you love someone isnt it??
2007-08-12 11:30:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
There is a difference in being 'nice' and being 'taken for granted' or 'taken for a ride.' If your boyfriend has not promised to 'go steady' with you, then dating anyone else is ok in a relationship. If you two were going steady, and he was unfaithful, then he will also be unfaithful if the relationship goes to the next level with you, and also, if he is unfaithful with you and you split up, you can bet your bippie that he will be unfaithful with his new girlfriend. People just don't become unfaithful or accidentally slip off the relationship boat with actions, they 'are' unfaithful in their heart. That will stay with them whereever they go and whomever they date until they change their heart and start to live commitment. You are better off just dropping him and finding someone that is committed and faithful.
2007-08-12 11:54:38 · answer #1 · answered by 'Sunnyside Up' 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you love him but does he love you as much? It is different when you are in love, you seem to overlook the faults in other people more. This is serious issue though and you really need to know that he will not do this again. let him know that although you forgave him once, that was the one and only time. You sound like a nice person who does not need this in your life.
2007-08-12 18:42:30 · answer #2 · answered by tony r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do seem very nice. But if he is gonna cheat on u. Girl he is not worth it. Dump him and go out with someone who is as nice to u as you are to him. Once he cheats he knows he can get away with and and he will do iit again good luck.
TASHA
2007-08-12 18:44:28 · answer #3 · answered by katherine j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's definitely different when you love someone because you see them in a totally different light. I think that it's okay if you decided to forgive them once, but I wouldn't take someone back if they cheated more than once because it shows a lack of caring for the one they're with.
2007-08-12 18:39:56 · answer #4 · answered by HeavenlyBliss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is and you should find someone that truely love you, if he loved you he wouldn't have ever even thought of cheating on you, every time he kisses you its a lie...your easy so he will cheat again
2007-08-12 18:47:22 · answer #5 · answered by manfromblueriver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea but you shouldn't have to deal with this
move on before he married someone Else
or maybe get someone else pregnant or something
2007-08-12 18:50:15 · answer #6 · answered by ♥wh♥tஐAre♥U♥Lஐஐking?ஐALEXANDRAஐஐ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋