I am gonna be a freshman in high school and i have never had a boyfriend! all my friends tell me i am really pretty and a great girl! i have even asked some guys what they think of me and they think i am pretty too! i think it mite be because i am not the skinniest girl but i am definately NOT obese. i am also really really tall. does anyone have advice for me to maybe get a boyfreind or to make myself more attractive? PLZ HELP ME!!
2007-08-12 09:11:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
to get a bf you need not to be attractive
getting bf is not a big deal
getting the right one is big deal
2007-08-12 16:34:42 · answer #1 · answered by rajan naidu 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Having a boyfriend in the 9th grade isnt the best thing i promise .. because chances are you're going to break up within a couple months maybe even days for that matter, but i know ho wit feels in the ninth grade and all your friends are holding hands and walking down the hall way with their boyfriends but really that probably pretty much all there is to it . but the right guy will come along when the time is right in the mean time just be yourself , and people will lov eyou which it seems like you dont have to much f a problem with that anyway =)
2007-08-12 16:26:16 · answer #2 · answered by CHiKADii815 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your still very young. I know thats no excuse, but if a guy doesnt approach you himself and ask you out on a date or even has the nerve to talk to you, hes not worthy enough to be with you. Dont be in a rush to get one because if you are, then you are sacrificing to probally getting a bad boyfriend than getting one that truly cares for you. Enjoy your life and be happy. Be happy that you have your independence. Be patient and love will always find you.
2007-08-12 16:20:15 · answer #3 · answered by elegant_prince 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your losing it your going to be a freshman calm down, you don't need help just be yourself and it already seems like everything going your way. Im sure your nice and not shy and talk to everyone. Don't worry in high school there is always a dude for a girl but not a girl for a dude.
2007-08-12 16:15:06 · answer #4 · answered by the worr e ore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i never had a bf all through middle school- i never even got asked out all through middle school! But i guess its because i was flat chested i still have a small chest though but i accept the way i am and am a bit more confident about myself. I think a dose of confidence is what you need!!!
2007-08-12 22:30:10 · answer #5 · answered by Registered Sex Offender ® 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem a little bit desperate there. You'll only attract guys for the wrong reason if you act like that or spazz out irl. You're still young, I don't know why your so concerned of it.
2007-08-12 16:19:26 · answer #6 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and make friends with the guys dont think of them as just boyfriends, i have a lot of friends who are guys and frankly i like it better, anyways try just saying heey to some guys in the hall and after school, plus your going into high school now where theres like WAAAY more new guys, one will fall for ya;]
2007-08-12 16:17:13 · answer #7 · answered by hello beautiful :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, be happy. You will meet the right one when the time is right. Don't be in such a rush, enjoy your life such as it is. Pray and do the Right thing. Study hard and for God Sake, Just Be Yourself. Be Happy, with who you are.
Have a great Sunday.
2007-08-12 16:17:10 · answer #8 · answered by That one 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeh i didnt have a boyfriend by then just wait it out stop looking and he will come before you know it ;)
2007-08-12 16:20:27 · answer #9 · answered by Booom! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't really tend to like girls that are taller than them. Also maybe youve got a bit deperate.
2007-08-12 16:16:34 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋