I'm a lesbian myself, and I broke up with my girlfriend a few months ago. I met a new girl recently, but so far I think we're nothing to each other but "sexpartners". We would get together every few days or so and spend the night together. We wouldn't talk to each other about things in life, all we do is kiss and hump aggressively in bed for hours, and then we would fall in sleep. The next morning we go seperate ways again. I think there must something wrong with this......
2007-08-12 06:12:48 · 13 answers · asked by Lily Y 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Hi, i can see nothing wrong with this, neither of you are hurting anyone, just have fun
2007-08-12 06:25:43 · answer #1 · answered by pete m 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it is just sex for sex's sake. There isn't anything wrong with that unless you want more. If you want more, then you have got to take the initiative and get the kind of dialogue you like going. It just doesn't happen naturally. Someone has to start it. If you want it, make it happen. If not, and you are unhappy with your current arrangement, then move on. Don't be afraid to be alone. It might do you some good to take it easy for awhile after your last relationship.
2007-08-12 13:20:48 · answer #2 · answered by realangst 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This person is probably a 'rebounder' for you. You miss the comfort you felt with your ex and you are looking for someway of regaining that feeling. The sex may be great, but you are feeling empty because you want the whole package, love, respect and eventually sex. You have a conscience, there is nothing wrong with that. Keep looking, you will find that special someone.
2007-08-12 13:17:52 · answer #3 · answered by momatad 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing wrong with this, she is your sex buddy. The only reason there would be something wrong with this is if you are falling in love with her and she isnt and you get yourself to involved. Have fun girl!
2007-08-12 13:31:39 · answer #4 · answered by arielsalom33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a sort of transitional relationship. You're not hurting each other or placing undue demands upon each other, and it seems she's helping you move past the breakup.
Relax.
2007-08-12 13:19:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yall are just sex partners like you thought. Men and women do this also. It's not the best arrangement in the world unless that all both of you are looking for.
2007-08-12 13:16:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
well, i think its wrong. i mean, yeah, u're juz sex partner and stuff but do u feel happy living like that? if u find yourself getting depressed by this, why dont u change for the better?
i know its easier said than done..but i just dont see what u're doing has any benefits at all. u dont know anything about her..and it's not too late at all to go back.think about it...
2007-08-12 13:22:20 · answer #7 · answered by ayiesha 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This seems to be just a friend with benefits thing which isnt wrong if your both ok with it,but do be careful.
2007-08-12 14:40:45 · answer #8 · answered by tx_rainbo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how u feel, I'm not gay, but I was in a situation like this and I started to catch feelings and they were not recprocated and I became mad at myself and him. I'm still getting over his butt.
2007-08-12 13:43:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we have all done something similar....I am straight, but one night stands are a part of life.
2007-08-12 13:23:07 · answer #10 · answered by country_girl 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋