Be really mean to someone, but behind their back and then deny it or make up some excuse? Would you expect them to trust you anymore?
2007-08-12 04:59:55 · 40 answers · asked by TV Addict 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
It isn't me that's done it. Just curious...hmm...
2007-08-12 05:06:29 · update #1
Well well well, not gonna answer then? Hahaha, wonder why? >:-(
2007-08-12 05:22:32 · update #2
Speak up! I can't wait to hear this one! I mean...it's just classic! Biggest pile of bull I've heard in my life! More, more, more!!!
2007-08-12 05:40:44 · update #3
Show your faces, people, the TV Addict is getting angry. You don't wanna see that!
2007-08-12 07:15:47 · update #4
This dosn't sound good, you ok ??
No im just a 5hitbag all the time, at least people know where they stand !! x
2007-08-12 05:12:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that I would - two-facedness is a human characteristic that a very large proportion of people have, even if they deny it. I will admit that I do; I feel that if you deny it, it makes it worse. If you do it then tell the truth and say you did, I feel it is easier to comprehend for the person than trying to lie and them finding out.
I would expect some hesitance of trust for a while, although I feel that even the best of friends do this to each other and it is pointless holding a grudge.
2007-08-12 05:09:15 · answer #2 · answered by Nathan JT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. Not only is this person not trustworthy to the one it was done to but also the people who witnessed it may ask themselves if they are not, too, treated the same way when they're not looking or listening...
Once a person has lost trust in you, you cannot excuse yourself back into their lives... or make other insinuations and dig yourself a bigger hole.
Peole are, on a instinctual or intuitive level, smarter than that! They may not be sure why, but they will feel they cannot trust you.
2007-08-12 05:12:59 · answer #3 · answered by Moustique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had someone do that to ME. It took me a while to understand why that particular person did it, and confronted her. She flatly denies that she was the one who did it, even tho circumstances points in her direction. Since then I lost trust and interest in that person for good, drew the line and walked away.
I can be critical of someone's behavior that is downright nasty, rude and insulting. For instance; someone lies about a person's lifestyle, and the innocent person has to live with the cruel remarks over a rumour. I may lash out to defend my friend's true characteristics, it's only her/ his nature. Although I won't be proud of my actions, but someone has to stop with the mouth running off lies.
2007-08-12 07:22:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but my friends do that very often......they tell me different things about persons they hate and who very often are my friends, but I just listen what they have to say in silence, without approving them and then forget everything......I hate these situations.....If I have a problem with somebody I prefer to tell that thing directly, even if it hurts....... And there were cases when somebody was talking behind my back and then I found out about this; so I went to that person and solved the problems...... I like to be honest.....
2007-08-12 05:23:18 · answer #5 · answered by - 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I try not to talk behind peoples backs. Not because I'm that nice but because I got caught doing it once and I felt really awful afterwords. But no, I do not act like a friend and then badmouthing people. That's lame.
2007-08-12 05:09:59 · answer #6 · answered by That Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt talk about someone behind their back. if i got a problem with someone, i'll beat them senseless, then deny it and tell them they fell out of a tree, because they can´t remember anything. then a week later, i would tell them the truth and then watch the expression on their face. cracks me up, that does.
2007-08-12 05:10:34 · answer #7 · answered by Lillers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no I wouldnt talk behind anyones back,if I have something to say I say it to their face and Im bluntly honest which can offend at times,when you say things to others you find by the time it reaches who it is originally about loads has been added on,so just say what you have to say a true friend will always be honest,not someone that would speak behind your back then pretend to be your friend...........
2007-08-12 05:10:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I Wouldn't As It's Untrustworthy And I Wouldn't Want Someone To Do That To Me.
2007-08-12 05:04:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, i have never been mean to someone behind their back so i never had to make up an excuse.
2007-08-12 05:05:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋