Hi lads. If you had had more than one partner and 6 of them fell pregnant with your child and then all suffered miscarriages how would you feel? Obviously some of you would be upset but what else would be going on in your head?
Not a trick question to catch you all out - if you wish to remain private you can email me and I promise that your answers and ID's remain that way.
Only asking because someone I know has been with many women - 6 of which have had miscarriages yet he still continues to sleep around unprotected. Would you be so callous and thoughtless to do that or put it down to pure co-incidence?
Thank you in advance and I do not hate men - just want other men's opinions on this situation.
2007-08-12 03:56:54 · 10 answers · asked by Bristol_Gal 4 in Health ➔ General Health Care ➔ Other - General Health Care
he's been stupid enough to do it he probably wouldn't care,whoever did this has no compassion or love for anybody but themselves,i feel sorry for the ladies involved,hope you weren't one of them
2007-08-12 04:03:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
This guy has doesn't seem to have a sense of responsibility. Bad enough not using protection but to carry on with that lifestyle is putting others as well as himself at risk of contracting a nasty disease as well as leaving a trail of emotional destruction behind him.
My wife did have a miscarriage some years ago and we were both extremely upset. It took a while for her to concieve after this, I think partly because of the upset involved in losing a baby. Sorry but I can't begin to imagine what it would be like to know that I'd been a part of 6 miscarriages...
2007-08-12 04:24:51 · answer #2 · answered by dukeofspace 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would be very upset but miscarriage is not a thing man or woman can prevent or foresee. And seeing as the natural instinct of man is to reproduce I dont see why one should have to stop reproducing. The sperm does not determinewhaether or not a woman is going to miscarry. I am not saying this in a loud or frank way. Just the most hoest way I can think of seeing as I have never been in that situation. but of course I would be very upset. Mind you if I had slept with 8 different women and 6 of them miscarried maybe I would be to shallow to be upset. But we dont know his reasons for all these relationships.
2007-08-12 04:07:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, unprotected sleeping with a girl/woman is only OK for me if I'm absolutely sure about her and my health - and about contraception!!!
Who is so crazy to just play around without protection? And what girls would accept this as well? I think a lot of brain is missing on both sides...!
The miscarriages are a co-incidence to me, I don't even no if I would see them as positive (no accidental child) or negative (emotional stress for the girl).
2007-08-12 04:18:04 · answer #4 · answered by swissnick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think theres a lot more to this than what first appears, your "friend" sounds like he doesnt have very much self respect, thus resulting in the lack of respect for others.. i.e the numerous women he sleeps with.
helping him is useless at the moment, as he obviousley doesnt admit to his problem, and the miscarriage's are only making him worse, affecting his mental state.. maybe he's trying to over compensate, for feeling "less of a man", as some men who go through these scenario's take it personally as if it's a reflection on there manhood... for want of a better phrase.
He's got to start to realise that he cant keep going like this, and take some time to learn to respect himself, until this happens.. you cant do anything.
2007-08-12 04:19:50 · answer #5 · answered by ::Spike6485::{UK} 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It would have to affect you in some way. Personally i would be cut up for a while. But then again i hate people that cheat and dont put up with it myself so i would only have one pregnancy to care about.
2007-08-12 04:09:22 · answer #6 · answered by paul g 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been with lots of ladies but never got any pregnant. By choice of both of us.
Been with lots of ladies that had tubes tied as well.
Wished I could be more help.
2007-08-12 04:04:27 · answer #7 · answered by Michael M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is shallow and maybe has a defect! i wouldnt be sleeping around in the first place hes asking for trouble and needs to get himself a conscience
2007-08-12 04:05:45 · answer #8 · answered by Tony F 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
any one man or woman who does that would be that thick skinned it wouldnt bother them in the slightest. sounds to me like a right ar5e wipe.
2007-08-12 04:06:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whoever he is he wants castrating!
2007-08-12 04:28:02 · answer #10 · answered by Tallboy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋