this is who i am. Why can't people understand it and leave me alone??

Question

I love my black eyeliner. Heavy makeup is my style. It's ME. Everyone I know tells me it looks horrible on me. I wish people would STOP! Why can't they just accept me for who I am? I don't even think the eyeliner is that bad. Does it really look that bad?

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and what should I say to people when they tell me it looks terrible?

Answer 1

no it doesn't look bad...i like it. perhaps they mean that it's more of going out look up than daily look. during the day i only put eyeliner on the upper eyelid, it's still pretty and not too much for daytime.

Answer 2

I love eyeliner. If you like it and you think it looks good, then wear it and don't pay any attention to the people who tell you it looks horrible. I don't think it looks too bad in the pick. I always wear eyeliner. I don't wear black because I think it's a little harsh when you are older, but I wear a lighter smoke color and it does the trick. Just a suggestion, but try a Loreal eyeliner in Smoke. You might like it.

Answer 3

I guess you wanted the guys to see your picture. I'm not a guy. Anyway, perhaps your make-up is too old looking for you at a young age. I mean like we didn't wear make-up till we were 18, are you 18? Tell them you will change when they stop reminding you. Or tell them soon they will catch up to you. Why does it bother you so much when people make constructive criticism to you anyway? They don't have to accept you at all...so what's your beef all about?

Answer 4

Tell them: People have their own way of style. Your words won't stop me from using the black eyeliner.

Nope, it's not bad. It's wondeful! You look quite beautiful!

Answer 5

because people are judgmental... think about it, we are used with labeling things - a person is a friend or an enemy, someone familiar or a stranger. a flower is pretty or just not our favorite. a TV show is interesting or boring, a book is interesting or boring... you get the picture. the point is we judged anything that is different than us. it's human nature.
personally I think the make up is ok, not heavy or vulgar. stop caring about what other people think if you feel ok with who you are!

Answer 6

It doesnt matter what we think its how you feel you like it then keep it that way dont let them control you hun it looks good though. I dont really care for people wearing makeup but i feel like is all it does is cover up but i know others like it and it does look good on some {most} people. well.......

~ GOOD LUCK WITH EVERYTHING! ~

Answer 7

you really shouldnt care about what other people say, honestly i think you look beautiful. its not bad at all, and if someone says something to you, just tell them your sorry they feel that way. and thats that. dont let stupid people say anything to bring you down okay? i'd accept you for you. so just be yourself and dont worry about what others have to say. =) hope i helped

Answer 8

You are absolutely adorable. When face to face with a verbal critic ask them the following...."Did you say that as constructive criticism or are you trying to hurt my feelings? Either way I hope you feel better getting it off your chest."

Answer 9

I love it. Look great to me from the picture. Tell them to bite it and wear their's the way they want and you will do the same.

Answer 10

It's not that thick. I was expecting that you put in on with a magnum Felt pen, so it looked liked someone punched you