I'm happily married, but have recently been watching Babecast/Babestation etc on Sky when my wife is out.
I get a real kick out of texting into the shows and hearing the girls read out and respond to my text. A couple of times the girl reading the text has told me to call her, so I have done and really enjoyed it, but afterwards have felt a little guilty.
Is this cheating on my wife and should I stop it?
2007-08-12 02:01:20 · 30 answers · asked by Charles T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
naw its not cheating but if you feel guilty maybe you should stop
2007-08-12 02:07:43 · answer #1 · answered by antoinio i 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not cheating as such but it is disrespectful ,I'm sure your wife would be hurt at the thought of you getting you kicks out of some girl on TV who has no interest in you other than to keep you on the phone to make money because the longer she keeps you talking and texting the more money that goes on her wages.
2007-08-12 11:47:57 · answer #2 · answered by candyfloss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer to this one!
If you didn't think you were doing anything wrong, you'd do it when she was around, and you wouldn't have a reason to feel guilty.
Fantasies are one thing, but to enact them with another woman in a way that excludes your wife IS a form of infidelity.
Sure it's exiting, but you know deep down that your wife would be hurt. I'd suggest you stop before she finds out and all hell breaks loose!
2007-08-12 09:09:00 · answer #3 · answered by howzacat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel guilty than it is wrong and you know it!! If your wife does not know about what you are doing and you know that she would be pissed than stop!! because honestly i would probably leave you if you were my husband and i found out that you were doing this behind my back! I consider this cheating, calling another woman to have phone sex, it is like a fantasizing cheat/an emotional cheat, and sexual cheat, just not physical....yet enough to call everything off in my book! JUst try to consider how you would feel if you found out your wife was creeping behind your back in the same way!
2007-08-12 10:43:29 · answer #4 · answered by Life....it blows! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
cannot be regarded as cheating, but then again its not exactly being faithful is it? Playing to girls you dont know for cash? Thats the bottom line, you paid for it. Would your wife be pleased if she found you out? Doubtful. Yes you should stop. Try having more fun with your wife, tenner bet she's up for it too.
2007-08-12 14:24:41 · answer #5 · answered by milly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if your wife was doing this behind your back??
If you have actually talked to another woman sexually what's to say that's where it will end. If this woman next tells you that she wants to meet you, what will you do???
It's very easy to get caught up in the moment and later regret the consequences of your actions.
Treat your wife with the respect she deserves.
2007-08-15 19:33:46 · answer #6 · answered by Evie E 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think there is something vaguely reprehensible about engaging in this form of sexual titillation. It doesn't come cheaply either.
I good honest hooker would give you a whole lot more satisfaction and she might be a working girl doing it to look after her needy children.
You should change your ways pretty quick.
You might learn a few tricks from a hooker that you could teach your wife and that would spice up your sex life.
2007-08-12 10:48:18 · answer #7 · answered by Paul R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! If you find it that easy to do on TV/phone, it's only a small step farther to do it in person. Ask yourself right now, do you want your wife to do the same thing and flirt with a guy? It is cheating just as surely as if you had walked into a motel room with one of these babes. If it is in your mind, it is in your heart and you need to evaluate your relationship with your wife. Have you tried talking to her the same way you talk to these girls?
2007-08-12 09:12:59 · answer #8 · answered by sixftrd 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say yes, even though you are not touching physically, but it is emotional cheating. I would stop before it gets really bad. For me.. I know all women are differ, but for me, if I found out my husband was doing that behind my back, I would be so hurt, I really think that this is steps to real physical cheating. As a woman, I would feel that I was not enough to please him, Now, if you want to do this, tell your wife, see how she is with it, and do it with her. Good Luck, if she finds out and you did not tell her, then what is she going to think of you... I know that texting has to cost money to do it..
2007-08-12 09:21:44 · answer #9 · answered by Kimberly5 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I wouldn t say its cheating but if you feel guilty then its wrong for you to do and if you feel you cant talk to the wife about it then she will see it as cheating its not good for your marriage or your phone bill lol
2007-08-12 11:44:51 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this question If my wife was doing the same thing behind my back would I think she was cheating?
It isn't cheating as in physical contact, but due to the fact your talking to another woman behind your wifes back and she doesn't know and maybe talking sexual or dirty. It is considered to be. #1 your doing it behind your wives back. #2 your talking dirty or sexual to another woman who is not your wife/
2007-08-12 09:22:15 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋