married for 16 years :
My wife and I have opened up sexually to one another over the past three years, I have found out her fantasies and desires and likewise she now knows mine, all of witch I am cool with. However, it now feels like she uses these fantasies and desires only as a tool to gain financial reword or to get something that she wants. The last thing being a house in Crete.
Any advice or anyone in the same position.
2007-08-12 01:49:44 · 10 answers · asked by secretdragons 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like it is working for the best with both of you. Keep it up.
Can I come visit?
2007-08-12 02:00:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
fantasies can be a dangerous thing to play with.. have you bought them into reality?.. if not and she is using them against you remind her of hers and see how she likes it.. if your a couple then fantasies are not to be used as weapons for self gain... she sounds like a right c o w...
if you have bought them into reality you must put a stop to it now!.. coz believe me they will totally destroy your relationship.. i know that oh so well..
2007-08-12 06:12:31 · answer #2 · answered by tikketiboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have a frame of reference for relating to what you're saying, but I am curious how she's transforming these fantasies into financial rewards? Please tell us more and then we can respond intelligently to your query.
2007-08-12 02:00:01 · answer #3 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is she using your fantasies to get money?? Is she saying she'll do something if you buy her ...?? You should straight up tell her "No, I don't want to treat you as a prostitute" because that's it amounts to.
2007-08-12 01:55:33 · answer #4 · answered by lanagrl78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't make her get away with it. Anybody who uses sex as a tool will get what's coming to them.
2007-08-12 01:56:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put your foot down.
Tell her you don't approve of her degrading herself like that. She can get off her *** and make some money to buy whatever she wants ;]
x
2007-08-12 01:58:29 · answer #6 · answered by Nicky-x 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
women have forever used sex as tools to get what they want...be it money, posessions, babies...the list is endless.
2007-08-12 01:55:46 · answer #7 · answered by charli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck!
2007-08-12 03:35:28 · answer #8 · answered by jenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what fantasies get her financial reward from you???
2007-08-12 01:57:43 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What harm is there if you concede to her will and wishes? After all she is your wife.
2007-08-12 02:00:00 · answer #10 · answered by sv 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋