My wife is talking to a person she met on-line. She has to call him several times a day, e-mail and chat everynight, call him before she goes to bed, and even has been on the web cam with. Am I wrong to feel that she is cheating?
2007-08-12 01:34:06 · 18 answers · asked by Eugene M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If I was in your shoes I would demand she stop talking to him all together. No, you aren't wrong in feeling like she is cheating, because she is. It's emotional cheating, not physical, but it can be just as devastating to your marriage. She needs to stop.
2007-08-12 01:38:12 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my 1st question for you
1. you own the webcam you bought it ? or she did without you knowing?
2. you';ve never sat on web cam in a cam site playing for any woman not persay for 1 single woman but hoping many are watching and might pm?
3. as a couple you didnt play physically on cam together?
right now that the questions are out of the way , she is in the wrong because she has taken fun chat to the major extreme ringing his phone? cheating! playing on cam with/for him when your home not cheating ! or not home cheating! the woman needs to be reminded she is married in a committed relationship and if she is so bored why not buy a 2nd pc and 2 webcam and play on line together as a couple with your cams exclusivley for each other alone believe me that heightens the senses time to do something major give her an altimatum and tell this jerk to go get his own wife he probably has 1 and wether he has intentions of leaving his own for yours or not what most men dont realise is if they put as much sexual energy into their partners as they do on line with women who are bored with their lives and spouses they might find a whole new side of their wife they were unaware of for all their wasted years on webcam on line.....
good luck
2007-08-12 04:13:20 · answer #2 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you don't like what she is doing. That person should know that she is married, ask her if she told him that. Stop this at once even if she hates what you are doing. Get a hold of the other person's contact details and if possible tell him to back off. She is your wife. He has no business seducing her or vice versa. She is bound to be lured into an affair if you don't stop her now. Good luck!
2007-08-12 01:42:20 · answer #3 · answered by Nora C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry it extremely is occurring. you ought to experience devastated. Please don't have knee jerk reactions. chatting with a distinctive is barely a symptom of different matters. Now i'm no longer attempting to scare you. yet each and every relationships have their matters. don't get too crushed. in case you experience such as you could stick a around and get to the basis of the subject, get to the middle of the situation together with her. it's going to take no longer ordinary artwork and many frustration. back, don't get crushed by way of that. that is all nicely worth it, in the top. understanding you have tried and have been given previous the matters, or in case you do no longer, a minimum of you recognize you gave your superb. save your chin up. no longer something is ever right this moment forward . there is something underlying right here. attempt to verify what that's and what may well be completed. She's human and he or she's able to misguided behaviour like each and every everybody is. stable success chum.
2016-11-12 02:44:33 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's bad. Sounds like she cares about him more than she cares about u. Talk to her. Ask her everything u want to know. U both need to be honest and tell each other how u really feel. U r not wrong. U need attention. U r her husband! Spend more time together. I know that the conversation is not easy at all, but it's the best solution.
2007-08-12 01:53:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether she is cheating is to be determined by the two of you. What is cheating to one spouse isn't to another. Tough as it is, you need to talk. Try not to demand, don't be confrontational, let her know you are hurt (assuming you are), and a key question is how would you feel were I to do what you are doing?
2007-08-12 01:48:08 · answer #6 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not wrong. All thought she has not a physical relationship with this person yet. She is having a mental relationship with him. That's just as wrong . She as an emotional bond with him and is probably planning the leave you. Not much you can do if she want to end it with you.
2007-08-12 01:44:38 · answer #7 · answered by milldoc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I won't call it cheating but she ain't doin what she should. I assume she's an adult and so are you! I'm sure if you talk to her (not in a heated argument) and tell her that you don't feel good about her behaviour, she probably would listen to you. (If she cares about you and your marriage) Talk it out like sensible adults! If she still decides to ***** up on you, forget havin a divorce! Pop a cap in her ***!lol (seriously dude I'm sure ya'll talk it out! Good luck
2007-08-12 01:47:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she is no longer a teen aged girl, and has commitments as a wife. If she does not heed that mild warning think of some more serious one, within democratic ways to save your marriage.
2007-08-12 02:14:53 · answer #9 · answered by Nader Ali 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that's cool at all, but that's me if u don't like it then u better man up and put ur foot down. like the saying go's stand for something or fall for anythig
2007-08-12 03:14:08 · answer #10 · answered by star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋