...would you still look for them when the right time comes?
2007-08-12 00:34:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
No. I actually was given up for adoption at birth, and was taken in by my mother. The adoption wasn't official until I was two. I don't know anything about my parents, but my mother (I had no father) is my real mother, because she raised me, cared for me, provided for me, and loved me, when no one else would. I owe her my life, and would do anything for her. I would feel like I'd be betraying her if I did try to find my biological parents. Besides, I have lived a good life, and I still am. I'm 20 years old now, and haven't made a single attempt to find my biological parents, although I have thought about it. But I never acted on it. I love my mother too much for that.
2007-08-12 00:46:29 · answer #1 · answered by Niko? 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
i'm accompanied myself even though it appears that evidently like my adoption is slightly greater open than yours. I do have photos, and a few letters. presently, I have been given ahold of an handle. i understand there are alot of people available who're accompanied that would desire to do something for that form of suggestion...yet to tell you the fact, i do on no account desire to fulfill my start mom. There are not any stressful emotions in direction of her...i'm in basic terms greater advantageous than happy with the life I rather have now. I rather have the main impressive mom and dad i'd desire to ever ask for. additionally, you may evaluate the way your start mom feels. i'm particular by now she is married & has babies. you may prepare your self for the reaction she would have. She would desire to be very, greater advantageous than happy you had to touch her, yet she additionally would produce different emotions including guilt, or invasion. the two way, in case you desperate to touch her or no longer you're an extremely good guy or woman! that's confusing to settle for on no account understanding your complete tale, yet on an identical time, that's totally stressful to ask to take heed to it. additionally, for the reason which you're over 18, your mom and dad can't withhold suggestion including your start certificates. in the event that they gained't grant you with suggestion, you may get it from the sate or the adoption company. good success!
2016-12-11 17:38:30 · answer #2 · answered by ciprian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key is if the right time comes. There are many factors to concider and if it felt right, I may do that. But it's hard to imagine coz I'm not adopted.
2007-08-12 08:06:34 · answer #3 · answered by Magic Mouse 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my parents never gave me up for adoption. it was a set up.
a story in its own which i will not go into detail right now for it will take time.
2007-08-12 04:42:28 · answer #4 · answered by bilbo b 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I met my birth Dad at 18 and it was a big mistake, I wish I'd never met him, even though I thought it would be a great thing it turned out a waste of time.
2007-08-12 00:44:59 · answer #5 · answered by Mo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have to there my parents I want to know why they do that do they have a good reason for doing that
2007-08-12 01:15:56 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't. I would consider my adoptive parents my true parents.
2007-08-12 00:49:41 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Zoey ♥ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
actually i was adopted and at age 24 i found my bio mom i was given up at birth my bio dad killed himself when i was 6 but now have no contact with her she never did want me
2007-08-12 00:48:02 · answer #8 · answered by hfroggie2005 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, but for me they got divorced when I was 2 years old
2007-08-12 00:42:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think I would. I'd want to know that much about my genetic heritage. I'd probably also want to know why they gave me up.
2007-08-12 01:00:29 · answer #10 · answered by auntb93 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋