Is it normal for ur 2nd cousin to treat you like this?
Is it normal for cousins to treat you like this?
Is my sec. cousin doing it out of love or just cheering me up or plain creepy?
i think he tried to cheer me up perhaps because i seemed sad and like i was about to cry...it's why he hugs me a lot and mess'es around (physically). (not in a nasty way)
what do u think?hes the only one who gives me special treatment my other cousins dont? When I was yonger he didn't.
and has ur cousin ever acted like that arond you but hes 6 yrs older tan u
its not INCEST
maybe he was doing it to cheer me up because the next day i was fine and he was sitll doing it
im 14 and hes 21
KEEP IN MY MIND HE NEVER TREATED ME LIKE THIS WHEN I WAS YOUNGER
2007-08-11 23:19:51 · 9 answers · asked by ♥dO yoU loVe iT♥ 1 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
Now he's older and mature. He might was worried about you and wanted to help you and still treats you like that because he may want to make sure that you're still alright. Don't worry =]
2007-08-11 23:27:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If all he is doing is hugging you then you should take it as giving you comfort and support at a time when you were sad. If he is touching you physically on your genitals or breasts then he is perpetrating on you and it is incest. Incest is not just sexual intercourse. If he is touching you inappropriately then you can count on the fact that if you allow this behavior to continue it will escalate and he will take advantage of you at a later time and seduce you into having sex. His behavior is also illegal since you are a minor and he is an adult. If he is touching your breast, genitals, placing his hand on your thighs, etc. then I would suggest you speak to your parents about his behavior and be specific in how he is touching you.
2007-08-12 04:17:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont overreact but if he persist dont hesitate to tell him right away how you feel.dont waste time tell him so he knows an if he doesnt stop from there let someone know. its better to have him upset with you then to out yourself in a situation that you will regret for the rest of your life. the behavior sounds inappropriate if your only 14 and you fell that way you should be very careful.
2007-08-11 23:49:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since this is making you uncomfortable tell him to stop. Don't worry about hurting his feelings. It's your body, your life. If you want, tell him you don't like being hugged and you're too old for it. Let him know you're serious. Be direct and firm and don't beat around the bush. If it continues, tell someone.
2007-08-12 03:41:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like your first answerer said, he is older. He is a young adult now . You are lucky to have cousin that is caring. He just likes you more ! You been together a long time too.
2007-08-15 19:25:49 · answer #5 · answered by VelvetRose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just the fact that you seem uncomfortable with his actions, leads me to believe that he's not so innocent.
No, it's not normal. Keep an eye on him and tell someone if he tries anything wrong.
2007-08-11 23:28:47 · answer #6 · answered by rustybones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, he's older then you and he maybe trying to help you out. Maybe he doesn't understand, exactly what is upseting you. He might be trying to help, to a certain extant.
2007-08-11 23:45:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this doesn't sound like he's just consoleing you. it sounds like he's leading up to something more than a cousin relationship. you should tell your cousin to back off..and if he still bothers you then you should tell your parents about it.
2007-08-11 23:35:07 · answer #8 · answered by morningstar6707 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can't say
2007-08-12 05:21:38 · answer #9 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋