Do you believe as you get better in life the trials become greater?

Question

The best students always get the hardest tests because they can handle them and that is in life not the classroom only :))

Answer 1

well, yes i believe that life won't give you a problem if you'renot capable of handling it and solving it. but not all of us get better in life and get the harder problems. some are not so good, but still they have mounting problems. i guess the difference is the people we are. as we get older and wiser, we know things we haven't known before. solving a great problem may be another step in solving another greater one, and if you pass former, you'll get to climb the ladder. i think that all of us gets to have great problems. no one is an exception, all are equal in facing them, all have the same means of solving it. we were not designed as who gets to have a better life will get the greater problem. but it's inevitable that as we get better, we also face trial in life that exceeds our capacity as before, but nevertheless, we are brave in facing them head-on. =)

Answer 2

I can understand where you are coming from, I've had rather a traumatic life over that last 30 years. I have been handed HEAVY burdens and huge hits from the man/women up stairs. At the age of 6 I had my ear ripped off by a dog, two years later I lost 2 grandparents, diagnosed with several disabilities, 10 surgeries to corretc joints which were messed up, death of a best friend etc ect.... For a long time I often thought why did God do this to me and was I a bad person at one point and was being paid back? At the age of 28 I realized that God had handed me all these burdens because I can and did handle them all and maybe somewhere there was a person who couldn't handle them. Everything happens for a reason and the only thing you can think about is the wonderful things you do have in life. Remember you have a brother disability or none think of all the people who never had or has lost a brother. You are truly blessed even if right now you can't see that...

Answer 3

This is a good question because the answer is hidden.

If one is faced with a trial and gets pleasure from resolving it or dealing with it well (subjective, I know), then others will present themselves. Some people have the imaginary picture of themselves that they excel when things get tough. If that is how they get their kicks, then why should the Universe interfere? Then they become addicted to this type of life. It is their choice whether they know it or not. Actually it is a form of vanity.

To get out of that routine requires either knowledge and an act of will or simply that things get so bad that they give up and opt out. My guess is that this is a good time to give religion some space or psychoanalysis, but simply learning about the Law of Attraction and the Science of Deliberate Creation is so much faster and economical.

Answer 4

I believe so because there are always and many challenges ahead of us. We want more hardships and it is in this challenge we show to ourselves how far we can reach our desire for achievements in life. The greater the trials the better results we get. Easy life has no challenge on the contrary. Simple life means simple mistakes. Complex in life means a lot of trials. Therefore better results in the end.

Answer 5

Hi,
Absolutely. In all areas of life. They say if you want anything done 'ask a busy person'. I know I have a reputation of getting things done and because of this more people in the commnity are coming to me to ask for my involvement. The more I do, the more I seem to have to do. Other people will say 'oh, i'm busy' or 'i'm working' or they have personal problems to deal with and just sometimes I feel like saying 'and I don't'?? I love helping people but I do agree, people pile more and more on a person because they think they can handle it, only they don't realise how much other people too are piling on them too. In life and in the classroom.
Polly

Answer 6

True! Watch as you climb a ladder. When you're at the lower first step of it, it feels ok, easy. But as you climb higher in reaching your aim, it gets harder. There's more risk of falling. Same thing with life. You get better to do better because your aptitude is challenged by greater tasks. And the bigger your trials seem, the harder you'll strive to rise above them.

Answer 7

I believe Heidegger said that 'not being there' is the supreme victory over 'being.' Of course to really care and be involved with something brings all the problems associated with it, without the relief of distraction. It is much easier not to care. I do not know if it is because we can handle something that we get the problems. Perhaps to live is to die, and mostly in life we don't really live, so once we really live, then all the intensity & distress of life is there as well.

Answer 8

I believe that as you get better you try for greater things causing the challenges to increase. However, if things stayed the same level, they would grow boring. Be grateful for the challenge. It's what makes life exciting.

Answer 9

Yea, i believe so. Sometimes we might get sent backwards to start from easier things again, but challenges will definitely get harder as we go, if we allow it to happen. Sometimes, the easy stuff is mix in with the hard stuff.

Answer 10

I think that every phase of your life comes with a it's own challenges and we should be aware of that.When life gets better,it doesn't mean that we shall stop improving.Yes,I agree with you.