she is a very open minded woman, and I know she has some sex toys.
her and I had a talk about masturbation, so I'm pretty sure she know I do it.
My goal is to abstain from sex till I'm in a committed relationship, but for now I was some pleasure
2007-08-11 17:55:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I have no clue how to bring it up.
2007-08-11 18:04:22 · update #1
its good that you have an open relationship with your mom.
Ew, dont share or steal sex toys.. thats just nasty and unsanitary.
I dont know how to bring it up, except to tell mom that you'd like a woman to woman talk and then ask for one. Maybe you can joke around about the fact that a dildo wont get you pregnant or give you a disease!
2007-08-11 18:14:03 · answer #1 · answered by Nekkid Truth! 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just simply tell her what you told us, that you want to abstain from sex until you're commited to someone. As for bringing it up, just ask her if she remembers talking to you about masturbation and go from there. You're very lucky to have a mom who is open minded. My mom's mind is blocked by a metal door with no key.
2007-08-11 18:11:24 · answer #2 · answered by IndiHippi 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
It's great that your mom is so open like that. My mom was so uptight that I asked for a post it once when I was 12 (referring to it as the thing with the sticky on the back) and she about had a coronary. I say, tell her that you don't want to have sex before marriage but you would still like to experiment with inatimate toys. If she already openly discusses self "indulgence" she will not be angry or bothered by your "wiles" good luck!
2007-08-11 18:12:55 · answer #3 · answered by SuperGurl78 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Go to the store and buy a reloadable Visa card from the convience store. Put $25-50 on it. Go online and buy from a website and select the discreet packaging.
I'm 24 and I couldn't talk to my mother about that. She is extremely open minded, but it's just not something I would wanna talk to my mom about.
2007-08-11 18:39:20 · answer #4 · answered by Alyssa and Chloe's Mommy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh God, please don't share hers. That's disgusting, tbh. If you really want one, and if you think she wouldn't mind then ask her. Wait until you're already talking about something like that, and then just tell her that because you want to abstain until in a committed relationship but you still want pleasure, you would like to get a sex toy. It'll be fine...She'll probably be thrilled you're not having sex! Good luck!
And btw you're so brave to talk with your Mum about anything like that! I think i would die or mortification!
2007-08-11 20:16:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should tell her that you found one of hers, and you want one of your own.
But why do you need her to buy it for you? You can buy them from Spencers and technically you have to be 18 to look at the sex toys, but if you go into the store really fast, pick one out quickly, and just go to the register they won't stop you.
2007-08-11 18:30:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you guys are comfortable about talking about those things, this should be easy for you guys. Don't share one though!
By the way, congrats on your goal!
2007-08-11 19:53:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are veru lucky you can ask freely woth ur mom. then not think u can directly ask but not as straightword
2007-08-11 22:08:55 · answer #8 · answered by podal s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree tell her what you told us I think I would kiss my daughter if she said that....whatever it takes too avoid sex...but if you go too walgreen they sell the finger tip massage things...same thing you can get at a sex store looks the same too and not alot and you don't have too tell her.
2007-08-11 18:13:04 · answer #9 · answered by Mommyof3 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
u have the right idea. send ur mom an email asking her to buy it for you.
2007-08-11 20:24:58 · answer #10 · answered by agello24 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋