I wish I could let situations go and just move on with my day. Sometimes I think over-and-over again about a dispute I had with a loved one or a conflict elsewhere.
How can I let go?
2007-08-11 17:02:05 · 8 answers · asked by 100% ♥Creole♥ 7 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
To be honest, some people cannot. It's in your makeup. It's just who you are. So I guess you have to accept that fact about yourself and concentrate on other factors. Like how you deal with it, your initial reactions, or how you might react in situations. There are things about us all that we cannot change. It's just who we are; but you can change the things around it.
2007-08-13 03:20:22 · answer #1 · answered by Ron B. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That means u r emotional, being a emotional and sensitive is not a bad thing but if you are emotional it doesn't mean you are suppose to be good to everyone, i
Everybody had prob with their loved one, not only you
Try to think about Good things waiting for you in your life, for example, you pet ( If you had one), your Hobby( hope u defintely have one), Your favourite actor, There are lot of things in life to enjoy so if you loose something or some one , it is supposed to be lost, but u can give a try to get it back and thats the human spirit, if you are not able succeed that means you have to try harder or think about what you are trying for is worth enough for you then you will realize how simple things and emotions are
Don't take it as a advice becoz i was also come across such situations and it is not related to be perfect
No body is perfect But everybody is trying to be one
BE COOL and ENJOY the LIFE
2007-08-12 00:27:38 · answer #2 · answered by sanntovaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this but i am extra sensitive and sometimes if my male friend says something that hits me wrong i will get my feeling hurt and go and pout.If i thinks he;s taking to long to answer me on the IM I get upset.It;s funny as i consider my self a tough cookie and once when i got stabbed i didn;t even cry; but if my make friend says the wrong thing or says something that hits me wrong i will start crying and i keep thinking ' he wants a women; not a little baby.I;m trying to change' but it's hard for a leopard to change their spots...
2016-05-20 03:11:13 · answer #3 · answered by lucinda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a "What If" complex.
i always think "oh, what if i had done this, or hadn't dont this, or what if i told him i like him, or ....ect."
obsessing on the past dosent get you anywhere, trust me! let it go and tell yourself that your not going to let your past affect your future. and forgive the people that have hurt you or that you have argued with, and appoligize to those that you have hurt. just tell youself you wont make the same mistakes again. (sorry i didnt spell check this, im sure i need to)
and it may sound stupid, but there is this thing where anytime you start to have those thoughts just say out loud "STOP IT" or, if your in public, say it in your mind so you dont appear crazy. it sounds really dumb but it can work.
2007-08-11 17:13:15 · answer #4 · answered by tt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to be the same way. And I admit that I tend to still be on the sensitive side, especially when it has to do with certain people. I have learned not to dwell on the past, but to learn from my mistakes and move on. When you dwell on something, it is a negative thing to do as we should all concentrate on fixing our mistakes and starting each day fresh!
*hugs*
2007-08-12 08:13:02 · answer #5 · answered by Jeannie ® 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with being sensitive that means that you are a compassionate person. you may need to learn how to let the little things go and pray about the big things so you can go on with your life. i would hate to think that you become a bitter person because of not letting things go. it comes with maturity also.
2007-08-11 17:11:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do it, too.
I think it has something to do with trying to be perfect, trying to please everyone, not disappoint anyone.
And it may be related to my upbringing where i was supposed to act like an adult before i was 4 years old.
Don't know if any of that helps you, but it is as far as i have gotten working this problem on my own.
Good luck.
2007-08-11 17:09:30 · answer #7 · answered by nickipettis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you should really listen to tt. That girl nos wat shes talkin about. Thats the way 2 go. She helped me to. GO HEAD TT!!!
2007-08-11 17:55:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋