he is amazingly perfect for me,
this situation suckkkkks.
okay,so i met him through my friend who used to be my bestfriend,but how we arent friends is a different story.i talked to him on the computer and we met at a show.and we talked alot more on the computer.then we met up at the park and we kindof kissed:]]]]].so now,he means everything to me.and im going to his school this year.im so happy.but something happened.and i dont know what.i think that my old best friend told him stuff about me that never happened.and obviously he still cares because he tried to call me before he left on vacation.but...
what do i do about him?
answers i dont want...-
-your too young.
-focus on school.
-be a kid,you dont know what love is.[[i know i dont.but im looking for some excitement.]]
2007-08-11 16:22:52 · 31 answers · asked by Mary!(: 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
nooooo...
he means everything to me because hes just....uhhhhh.idk.
but you all are making me feel horrible about myself.
2007-08-11 16:31:37 · update #1
wrong section. go to dating. you probably(most likely) won't get any serious answers.
i have no advice other than that because I am sort of in that situation also.
= )
~*~*~*star*~*~*~
2007-08-11 16:28:14 · answer #1 · answered by ~soul*of*a*diva~ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh! The highschool drama of it all. What your feeling is the uephoric effects of lust flowing through you like waves of emotions. Soon, you'll sucumb to your emotions, he'll then loose interest, you'll probably have contracted an s.t.d. or gotten pregnant, & then whats left of your broken hearted life continues on. We watched a couple of episodes of this drama last season. One girl now has a brand new baby, but she's only in 10th grade. The boy blazed, of course, screaming that she was a slut & that the child surely couldn't have been his. The other gilr decided to abort her pregnancy. The doctor didn't tell her about the nightmares that she would have for the rest of her natural life for murdering a helpless baby. Nor did he inform her that he would be looking forward to treating her a little later in life for the breast cancer that she would be contracting for making the decision to have an abortion, or maybe cervical cancer. Wow! Go get him girl!!!
2007-08-11 16:37:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he still seems like he wants to talk to you and be around you, then dont worry about it. and if your "ex friend" did say something just tell him that its not ture and thats shes lying bc shes jealous or something. but if not then just move on. if what your friend said makes it awkward between you guys you should get let it be. your friend is being really immature. you can try explaining to him what is going on but if thats not working you should just forget about it. in my experience summer flings are basicly just summer flings. lol dont get me wrong they are fun and all but the start of the school year is the best time to find guys if you really want some soft of relationship. like summers over and ppl are done being crazy and are getting back into the school routine. and ppl are going away as much and yea so i hope this helps!!! and good luck and just to let you kno im no where close to being a love doc some if this sounds like its no going to work dont take my advise lol k bye
2007-08-11 16:43:47 · answer #3 · answered by sara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I'm gonna give you all the answers you don't want, because they're the truth. And you know you're too young and you have to focus on school because you used the wrong "you're." If you want excitement why don't you just go up to him and kiss him?
He means everything to you? More than your parents? That's just sad. And beggars can't be choosers when it comes to Y!A
2007-08-11 16:26:51 · answer #4 · answered by Rara 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In any real relationship, honesty is the ONLY policy.
Contact him. Tell him you sense a change. Ask why. If he doesn't give you a chance to rebut any lies with the truth, then he isn't worth your worry. If he isn't interested in what you have to say, then cut the ties and absorb the hurt. Someone, somewhere, who does want to share your life is waiting for you.,
2007-08-11 16:33:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him come to you. Don't worry about it unless he talks to you about that certain situation. Maybe he's just feeling a little more every day for you and you think it's something bad, when really, it's good! Just relax and float his boat! Be yourself and if he has any questions about anything, don't hesitate to tell the truth.
2007-08-11 16:30:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah to be a teenager again... you couldn't pay me enough. It's a cliche, but the best answer i can think of is just be your sweet self. And do make school your priority, but a little excitement is fine.
2007-08-11 16:34:13 · answer #7 · answered by Robin the Brave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first of all, remain calm. If this guy cares for you, he'll take your word over your friends. Let him know that he needs to trust you for your relationship to work.
Wait for this guy to get back from vacation before bombarding him with all of this. Let him get his mind cleared up before you talk to him and do so calmly. Nothing scares guys more than emotionally unstable girls.
Good luck!
2007-08-11 16:27:22 · answer #8 · answered by mademoiselle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to enter a convent and become a nun. That is the only way you will survive till adulthood.
2007-08-11 16:37:09 · answer #9 · answered by Space Alien Frerp 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you are to end to this boy you will get jealous if you see him with another girl and i can tell and he is going to have a lot of girls that like him so don't be all over him like hes your life because boys hurt girls a lot even if their the sensitive kind so don't fall head over hills for this boy cause he will hurt you and i don't want you to get hurt.
2007-08-11 16:29:52 · answer #10 · answered by Bre 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know what do to, then you are too young. Go and watch Sesame Street or something
2007-08-11 16:30:33 · answer #11 · answered by sharkgirl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋