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I just got a cellphone and started take pictures of myself for fun. And guess what....I look UGLY in them!!
Chubby Face
Chinky Eyes
Flat Button Nose
Big Lips
I was just UGLY! Then all of these things start to run through my head. One big thing was that: I can never get a lover. Guys would not be attracted to someone so ugly. Is the only solution to this: plastic surgery? ...or cover my face for the rest of my life?

2007-08-11 15:42:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science Psychology

15 answers

common, there so many people who are beautiful
but somehow after the accident they may have
lost their looks, that doesn't mean that cover their
face.
don't worry God must have made a pair for you too.
& if got the money then why are you hesitating,
if can afford the plastic surgery, even after the plastic
surgery still many are not satisfied.

2007-08-11 15:56:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Chubby faces and button noses are not usually described as UGLY, that is actually cute to alot of people. Ask people if your ugly. Do a test. I bet you will get some people saying your not. And beauty i too common to be worried about having. There is so many thing that are being used to get beauty it is ridiculous. You know something that is not as common?? A inner beauty. Loving others. Not being selfish. Alot of people don't go for looks all the time. If the personality is good then don't you worry about what you look like and rock on happily ever after!!

2007-08-12 01:10:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Some folks are just not very photogenic. I've been told I'm very attractive, but my pictures are horrendous! I want to tear them up! Don't be so hard on yourself. First of all, if you're taking pictures of yourself, they're probably too close up, just the distance of your arms' length. The closer you aim the camera, the more distortion you see. I'm sure you look better in person than you do in the pictures. The right hairstyles and makeup can do wonders in changing the contours of your face, and enhancing facial features. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. What's ugly to you might be very attractive to someone else. You'd be surprised how many guys wouldn't think of you as ugly at all. And I've known some beautiful girls who think they're ugly and fat. So stop thinking of yourself as ugly and concentrate on your best features. Good luck!

2007-08-11 22:56:54 · answer #3 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0 0

I consider myself ugly but others, even guys I meet tell me that I'm cute. I keep my opinion about myself to myself. If you are in fact not attractive in my experience it makes little difference because people who only consider the outside appearance aren't people I would want to form a relationship.
What kind of person you are is what is truly important and your actions determine that. We all age and beauty fades.
If you have the money and you are sure without a doubt go for the plastic surgery. I would have rhinoplasty (a nose job) if I could afford it.

2007-08-11 23:44:43 · answer #4 · answered by Tam Tam 2 · 0 0

I don't believe this. You are letting a cell phone pic dictate to you that your appearance is less then appealing. Had you ever had your picture taken with a regular camera? Do you value other peoples opinions about you. I'll go to the very extreme here, is ugly (using your terms) so bad?
I think that this might be a battle between ugly and vanity.
My daughter purchased a condo and she used her cell phone to take pictures of it. She showed them to me. My first question to her was "what am I looking at, and why ." She showed me a picture on her cell phone of her friend. I said, what is that?.
So let me turn the tables on you and ask, what is wrong with this picture?.

2007-08-11 22:55:15 · answer #5 · answered by Tinman12 6 · 0 0

I guess you didn't feel ugly when you look into a mirror for as long as you've lived. Well, that's cause you're not ugly.

Some people are anti-photogenic. I am too, I look like sh*t in photos. But don't worry, no guy is going to choose a gf by looking photos.

2007-08-11 22:50:11 · answer #6 · answered by Hornet One 7 · 1 0

I have a large head

a long face

a large nose covered in black heads and larbge pores

i have bland eyes

heavy eyebrows

glasses




i hate the way i look in pictures and mirrors


but more than once i have been told i am at least decently attractive.


and i DAMN well know you are not as ugly as you think you are.


ok?

2007-08-11 22:48:32 · answer #7 · answered by devinthedragon 5 · 3 0

Uhhh, never expect a mere cellular telephone to truly capture a portrtait of reality.

Look around- I surely haven't found a correlation to being physically attractive and being involved in a relationship.

2007-08-11 22:47:43 · answer #8 · answered by Bugmän 4 · 1 0

Ok i dont mean this to sound bad...
1st of we are our on worst critics! I know i am
2nd ok.... beauty is defined differently by everyone
3rd theres always someone based off our defination of pretty or hot thats uglier than yourself
4th theres always someone based off their defination thats gonna like your chubby face, chinky eyes, flat buttoned nose and big lips.
I get told im a MILF and you know what I DONT see it!! I think my face is chubbier, my teeth are somewhat crooked, ..... all i like is my eyes,t lips and my chest but thats ALL i like about me. Far from milf! But im my own worst critic too. I dont see myself as ugly or hot.... im average.
Dont believe me?....go to the mall some day and just observe the types of people there who have worse features than yourself. Theres always someone there with a bigger a**, theres always someone there with a huge nose, or lips so thin they are all face, theres always somone with a feature less desireable than your own. They are everywhere. So dont be so hard on yourself. Your not as bad as you think.
I hate my pics taken too! I avoid them as much as possible. Unless im wih my kids because they dont care how i look they love me regardless!

2007-08-12 01:27:15 · answer #9 · answered by izzabella_74 3 · 0 0

i doubt you're really ugly, because most girls aren't ugly. i get turned on by girls who are chubby and may be conventionally unattractive all the time. and lots of guys are the same. there are girls i see as average and other guys see as hot. and there are girls that other guys see as average even ugly that i see as hot. guys don't have really high standards.

it's us that have it really tough. only about 10% of guys are considered attractive by girls. the rest are unattractive and no girl wants to be approached by them.

2007-08-12 12:40:30 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0 0

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