y is my mom SOOO nosy and protective!!?

Question

she nvr used to be like this...but latly shes all...
watcha doin?
y's ur door shut?
who r u talkin to?
IT'S SOOO ANNOYING!!!
like i said she nvr used to be like this...it just started one day!

ok...now im grounded for A WEEK!!
i can't do anything!!! grrrr!

Answer 1

She is protecting you. She wants to make sure you are not doing anything you are not suppose to.
OR maybe she wants to be a part of your life. As a kid gets older they don't want mom around.

Answer 2

Well there are a couple options-

1) You're at an age where SHE did 'bad' things when hse was a kid (thus making her suspicious of you)

2) You've started acting different than you did before and you just haven't noticed it.

3) She wants to try to be closer to you and be involved in your life.


No matter what the motivation, this is what ALL mothers do at some point.
Yes, its annoying to us as kids.
You don't really appreciate the worry that mother's have for kids until they get older.

But yeah, its definately annoying to us as kids. But its what mother's do-- right wrong or otherwise, its what they do.

Answer 3

its not because she doesnt trust you its because she loves you and she wants you too b safe. she just doesnt trust all the strangers out there. its her job to b that way. you just have to remember that the only reason why parents do anything is because they are trying to do the best for their children. if it really bothers you that much just take he aside and talk to her about it. maybe if you are a little more open about what ur plans are or what you are doing then she will feel more comfortable. i'm sure you two can compramise and find away to make both or you feel better. my mom got that way when i became a teenager and i hated it. we would fight about it. now that i'm older and i see the people that i grew up with that didnt have that, i'm glad my mom did some of the things she did. i'm a much better person for it.

Answer 4

Mothers job is to be annoying... because if we aren't then you kids are out doing things that we don't know about and end up hurting yourself. So... put up with her annoyance and thank God that you have a loving caring mother because you could be like my 2 stepdaughters and have a druggy mother who care less if you get food in your tummy before you go to bed.

Answer 5

This may be your moms way of trying to keep an open line of communication with you and she is not sure how to do it. You may just try to let her know that you appreciate the interest, but try not to be so overbearing with it. If you meed her, you will come to her.

Good luck!!

Answer 6

hey am srry but it's ur mom's job! lets say one day she didn't care what u did ! like she couldn't care less! u would want ur
old oover protective mom again! oh .... srry 'bout the grounding but u can never get bored on internet!

Answer 7

She knows you're getting older, and know teenagers just....are teenagers. They may be depressed, doing drugs, have a secret boyfriend or something, and she just wants to make sure you're okay

Answer 8

LOL

you answered your own question!

Obviously she has gotten all nosy and protective because you are doing something wrong....

She caught you, and you are grounded for a week!

We parents have radar you know ;)

Answer 9

she's probably just concerned, my dad is doing the same thing.
Just realize thatshe's doing it because she cares, its the motherly way and it will probably never change.
talk to her and tell her u need your space sometimes, and you appriciate your "private time"
but dont shut her out completely that will only make things worse!

Answer 10

She thinks just because you're a teen it means you're up to something. Most adults are like that. But they shouldn't be.