i have a few guy friends, and alot of girls that r friends. i hang out with the guys as much as the girls. but they make fun of me. why is this?
2007-08-11 14:43:37 · 23 answers · asked by confuzzed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
look guys are very immature in their teen years. they make fun of any one and any thing. one thing is they may be jealous you have a lot of girl friends and they don't. who knows and who cares right. just do what makes you happy. when they do make fun of you just shrug it off. if you let them know it bothers you they will just keep on. go ahead and have all the friends you want. who are they any way. they will regret it later. and then if now so what right. be happy you have all the friends you have. one day they will grow up. too bad for them they are missing out. enjoy your teen years you can never go back and do it all over again. just shrug it off okay. wish you tons of joy. and hey do what you want and what makes you happy. don't let them bring you down. it is just a guy thing.
2007-08-11 14:53:01 · answer #1 · answered by trish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're probably jealous because you get to spend a lot of time with girls. Your friends are just being silly.
They're may also be used to the idea that if a guy spends a lot of time with girls, it means that he's gay. That's completely untrue.
It just means that you're well-balanced in terms of your social life. You hang out with both genders, and that's a good thing.
The next time your guy friends make fun of you, just roll your eyes and think about how immature they are being.
2007-08-11 14:54:52 · answer #2 · answered by decaelegant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they can't understand you...
is it that you hang out with a lot of girls and you're the only guy?sometimes they think men like that are gay...
its because men generally cant stand so much women around him if he's the only man around since he doesnt know how to act but its better when there are men and women in a group on an almost equal ratio...
i think a man is also more confident if its just him and a girl or with one other girl friend but really not in a group...
hope this answers your question and all i can say is dont let them bother you if hanging out with the girls makes you happy just invite them next time to hang out with the girls as well.
2007-08-11 14:52:40 · answer #3 · answered by puzzled 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's typical for people who are incredibly insecure to belittle other people with qualities they don't have or understand. "Misery loves company" and "birds of a feather flock together" so as a group they feel more confident attacking you and probably make eachother feel better for all having the same deficiency. Don't you think for a second that these boneheads wouldn't die to be in your shoes. So...why don't you try to integrate both groups of friends? See what happens. You could be the GREAT INNOVATOR who taught everybody how to get along, eased these guys out of their insecurity AND you wouldn't have this problem anymore. Good luck.
2007-08-11 15:01:52 · answer #4 · answered by jota 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its immaturity on their part. They feel that guys should stick with guys and girls should only be friends when the relationship is serious, not realizing that friendship can be built between both sexes. Hopefully that makes sense! It is also a sign of Jealousy.
2007-08-11 14:56:59 · answer #5 · answered by qteepatutee08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, don't even take that 2 heart. They're just jealous that they can't hang out with hot chicks. Prob cause how close they get 2 any girl is their cheesy pick-up lines. If u know what I mean;p
...stay being a nice sweetheart. Thats prob y girls hang out with u;p
2007-08-11 14:50:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mostly I just make fun of kids with horrible grammar, and who think txt is a form of communication.
People who make fun of ladies men do so because they are jealous of all their female attention.
2007-08-11 14:49:27 · answer #7 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're just jealous. Do they have girls for friends? All boys want relationships with girls and they don't know how to tell you they envy you , so they tease you. Just ignore it.
2007-08-11 14:48:55 · answer #8 · answered by P S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that just happened to me they were all like you get sum puss thats your ***** isnt it its all a bunch of guys doing it isnt it its cuz they dont have gf's and practice kissing on each other and are jealous that you have a chance with any of the girls
2007-08-11 14:49:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my friends make fun of each other for everything, we're all in our 20's it will never end for guys. find somthing to make fun of them for, it doesnt have to be a big deal just make it into one its all for fun dont worry
2007-08-11 15:11:06 · answer #10 · answered by jason g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋