ok well my parents dont trust me cause i was talking to one of my guy friends about my virginity. now i can see him anymore, and he is one of my best friends!!!!! how can i get my mom and dad to turst me again, we i am only 13, and most lose my virginity for a few more years!!!!! plz help me!!!!!!!
2007-08-11 14:31:21 · 14 answers · asked by BabyK 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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2007-08-11 14:37:21 · answer #1 · answered by Adawg 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what kind of talk you and your friend were having about your virginity, but I can see why it would scare your parents into seperating the two of you. You're very young, and the thought of having your 13 year old daughter even thinking about sex is frightening. Too many young girls get pregnant and lose their entire lives to a child they were too young to have in the first place. If you want your parents to trust you, you have to be totally honest with them, and that means you have to be willing to talk to them about the stuff that might be hard to talk about. Tell them what you are thinking. Let them see your world the way you see it so they can trust that you are not going to make a huge mistake. Talk to them. The best way to build trust is to be trustworthy.
2007-08-11 14:41:58 · answer #2 · answered by Irish 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At your age ,you can understand your parents concern for you.They love you and only want the best for you.They don't want someone to take advantage of your youth and naivete. Unless you have done something worse than talking about your virginity,I am confident your parents have not lost their trust in you.Sit down with them and explain the conversation with your friend.In addition, let them know( and mean it) that you intend to be celibate until you are much older and meet the right man.Tell them that although you will have guy friends, they will all be platonic.Your parents will not only come to trust you,but also respect your good judgment and sense.I wish you the best.
2007-08-11 14:49:08 · answer #3 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your "girlfriends" about virginity. On the phone, in the car, anywhere your parents can hear you. Laugh, cry, giggle, whatever. It doesn't matter what you say. It is perfectly natural and healthy to be curious and talk to your friends. However, a 13 year old boy just wants to know if you have it and can he get it. That is not good or bad, it just is. You probably scared your parents. Show them you have healthy relationships with your girlfriends. relax and have fun
2007-08-11 15:03:58 · answer #4 · answered by pollytano1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Killing yourself isn't going to do you any good. Here's the thing your BFF will always be with you in spirit no matter what. Suicide is a sin in God's eyes hate to tell you that. Trust me I'm 29 and I've been in your shoes plenty of times. I lost one of my dear friends back in August due to a car wreck he had. It's okay to cry mourn the person then realize that one day you will get to see that person again if you live according to God's grand plan for all of us. I use to cut and my bf used to cut, because like you it was an excapism for the pain we were dealing with at the time from parents. If you need someone to talk to that's been through dealing with death and pain and cutting just contact me please.
2016-05-20 01:42:50 · answer #5 · answered by lela 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, for one thing it's going to take some time to get your parents to trust u again..... and another thing your only 13..... u need to wait for 3 more yrs. until your 16 then you can date if your parents let u ?
2007-08-11 14:41:09 · answer #6 · answered by BIG BEN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you just need to explain why you were talking to him about virginity. Just explain to your parents that's hes your friend and you trust him so that's why u were talking about it. give them the details. you will have to prove to them they can trust you again so dont be shy.
2007-08-11 14:40:07 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Jessica♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't blame your parents. They are only protecting you. Your guy friend should not be talking to you about sex. He's not your friend and your parents know it. Find other friends and they should be girls, unless the boy is respectful of you.
2007-08-11 14:37:45 · answer #8 · answered by P S 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1- I don't blame your parents.
2-Wait until you're married to have sexual relations.
3-the fact that you are only 13 says a lot.
2007-08-11 14:37:27 · answer #9 · answered by determined_ladii 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
explain to your parents why u were talking about your virgnity and if they want to know more details then give them. trust is earned. so u have to earn it back by being a good girl.
2007-08-11 14:37:24 · answer #10 · answered by Southern Princess 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well convince them that what u we're talkin about was nuthin they should worry about becuz your not about 2 give "it" up.or if they still dont trust u just text him or talk to him without ur parents knowing
2007-08-11 14:39:18 · answer #11 · answered by *angelgurl_numba1* 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋