okay so one of my good friends dated this guy but she broke up with him about 5 months ago and has a new boyfriend and i really like her ex and he really likes me but i feel like she will get mad what should i say to her?
2007-08-11 14:15:40 · 26 answers · asked by Samantha D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Why don't you call her and ask her. Tell her that you value your relationship with her, and don't want to cause a problem. Then ask her if she still has feelings for him. If she says no, ask her if she would be uncomfortable if you dated him.
Has he asked you out? Don't be the one to do that, as that might make her think that you had an interest in him all along. Good luck!
2007-08-11 14:22:59 · answer #1 · answered by P S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your friend would be mad at you if you started to date her ex. For one, that's her ex and it hasn't even been a whole year since they have broken up.Your friend might feel betrayed by the fact that you are dating her ex and she might eventually stop trusting you. So you need to ask yourself this: Is this guy worth a friendship?
2007-08-11 14:25:01 · answer #2 · answered by misskeke 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is one of the biggest taboos known to man. Never date your good friends ex. The situation may not be mentioned out loud, at least not at first. But this is a very tension building mistake. Ask yourself if one of the reasons you are attracted to this person is "because it is your friends ex". That is an enticement all by itself and could have disastrous effects. If you cannot be faithful to your friend, who can you be faithful to?
2007-08-11 14:26:38 · answer #3 · answered by princess_trixxi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probaly so but if she is with another guy then she shouldnt be mad. Now if she werent dating and they just broke up thats understandable to be mad. Sit down someplace private and talk to her to really find out cause if you cherish the friendship then it may be better if you stay away from the guy.Good Luck!
2007-08-11 14:24:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know its an unwritten rule for guys...thought it was for girls too..
You could always ask your friend if its OK and she almost has to say it IS since she has a new man. That way you can do what you want and she cant say anything about it to you, but just know that deep down she may harbor resentment about it.
Depends on your friendship with her and her how strong her relationship was with her ex...
2007-08-11 14:25:30 · answer #5 · answered by James B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOWWWW people like you are annoying seriously your getting mad about a friend going out with an ex? FIRST of all its your EX meaning not anymore you act like you own him. Then YOU get MAD at your "Friend" becuase they like each other?? your not worthy of being called a "friend" cuz if you were you are a pretty shitty friend
2016-05-20 01:39:15 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never date your best friends ex because even though they say they are ok with it they still had a relationship with that person.
2007-08-11 14:22:20 · answer #7 · answered by alwaysbored 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to make up your mind about what is more important a good friend, or a relationship with a guy that probably won't last. Good friends are hard to find.
2007-08-11 14:25:19 · answer #8 · answered by adventure30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes she will, its an unspoken rule between friends, you never date the ex. Even if they say its ok, they are usually lying.
2007-08-11 14:20:45 · answer #9 · answered by Jesse's Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with her and tell her you want to go out with her ex. Be prepared because she might not like you being with him. Is he worth losing her friendship over?
2007-08-11 14:22:56 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋