Does it actually matter to a woman to treat her with respect?

Question

Sounds like an odd question, but you really have to wonder. There are so many women out there who think it's great when a man is loud, abrasive, bullying, self-absorbed, and crude. A lot of women see such a man as "confident" because he "does whatever he wants to".

On the other hand, a healthy, intelligent, respectful man is seen as being "boring" and "too nice".

The real kicker is that it's smart, successful, businesswomen who love the obnoxious men.

Why is that?

Answer 1

I can't speak for all women, but I wouldn't give the time of day to a man who is loud, abrasive, bullying, self-absorbed and crude. On the other hand, a healthy, intelligent, respectful man is anything but boring. I think you have your switches switched. It's true that some women are attracted to obnoxious men, but I think in general, women enjoy being treated with respect; in fact, they wouldn't have it any other way.

Answer 2

Well, the smart successful businesswomen who love those obnoxious men now, are also the businesswomen who very well may not be quite so smart and successful a few years down the road, because of those obnoxious, bullying, self-absorbed, crude, loud men. Most of the time, as women get older, they get smarter. Some don't- and they hang onto the things that they thought they valued, only to find out those things have no value. The real men out there, the ones who know how to treat a lady with respect, and kindness, are few and far between, and if one of those ladies you're referring to gets lucky enough to find one, she better hang on to him. She'll probobly never get another chance.
(It's kind of like teenage peer pressure in a way- those women who like the crude guys think it looks "cool" out in public, but when they get alone with those crude guys it's far from being cool anymore)

Answer 3

i think you have miles to go on your way to understanding..
to a "real" classy woman, any guy who treats her with respect i any form or fashion is praised with graciuosness. it can be from a simple nod, to a simple thank you, a mere smile or grin, or maybe even a cool wink to a guy. for a guy to respect a woman is something that is learned. any guy with intellect displays this to women. ~~all women. it could be his wife, his mom, his grandmother, his sister , his female coworkers,his girlfriend, his daughter, or a woman stranger he passes on the street- sees in a bookstore or a supermarket, etc. the women who accept crude behaviors from men in essence have no outlined morals for themselves. to respect is to be respected. if a woman carries herself in such a way it is obvious what she holds, men see it, and they gear respect towards them. simple. a respectful man is not seen as boring or too nice. maybe that is what you encounter as a man. show some respect and you will get it back. (what goes around comes around). smart businesswomen do not love obnoxious men. it is a dog eat dog in the corporte world. half of the businesswomen have to kiss up to men because either the competition is so high they need to umph the sitiuation, or to overexceed, (sex, overtime, exuberence), etc, they need to put something in the equation to attract that man or men.
how many businesswomen do you see that havent laid their boss to get to where they are in the company or to their position status? think about it.
as a man you should know, even a famous song lyricists said it= "this is a man's world..." (look it up!)
the next time you run into class you will know it.... & the next time if you have nothing nice to say or compliment to a woman, don't say it... silence is golden. & go the extra "mile" dude. ya' kno what i'm sayin'? *wink*

Answer 4

It actually does matter! Women who tend to go for men like that are only following a pattern, by that I mean they go for a man who is most like their father, and how does any father seem to a child, mothers are always threatening to tell dad what the kids have done etc, girls are usually in awe and a bit afraid of dad. Read up on child psychology and you'll learn a lot about how our early relationships are formed and carried through to our adult life.

Answer 5

Yes it matters!

I think it just seems that loud men get the attention because you mostly hear the horror stories. Like in the news you only hear the bad stuff rarely the good. But in reality majority of women are with men who are nice and treat them with respect.

Answer 6

I like my bfs gangster yo! I love mi ghetto thugs, I have a thug right now and he looks just like Cedric The Entertainer. He so sexxxxxxyyyyy yo, sexxy enuff for a princess like myself. Jajaja!