My buddy is inviting his church over for a get together along with some other people. Age range of the people will be between early 20s and late 60's. He also spent 300 dollars on food and wants to use regular plates and glasses instead of disposable ones. Is it okay to ask the women clean up the mess? If so, should he ask the older women or younger women?
2007-08-11 13:22:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
you and your friend should clean up, since it was your house and him who threw the party. though, you could ask a few people to help clean up the mess.
2007-08-11 13:27:17 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Gail ♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have people offer to help, not tell them straight out they should clean. Just be like "Okay... I'm going to clean up now," lots of people should volunteer since they helped make the mess. Men and women.
2007-08-11 13:36:53 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Screamo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no need to ask the women to clean up. It is in a women's nature, both young and old to naturally gravitate towards the kitchen and clean up during the party.
2007-08-11 20:05:12 · answer #3 · answered by dcdcdcdc 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The person hosting the party ummm, hosts the party....
Guests attend.
If he wants some help, he can ask, but the help needs to come from the pastor and the congregation your friend represents, not the guests.
2007-08-12 00:19:21 · answer #4 · answered by Puresnow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask, the older women will volunteer to clean up.
2007-08-11 13:30:42 · answer #5 · answered by Lolitta 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes the younger ones
2007-08-11 13:54:39 · answer #6 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If a person is a guest in your home, they shouldn't be asked to help clean up. If they offer you can accept your offer, but don't expect them to help out.
2007-08-12 13:43:30 · answer #7 · answered by Panda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure you can ask the women to clean up. If you're lucky, you might survive the night.
2007-08-11 13:32:53 · answer #8 · answered by Jelly Bean 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Since you are hosting, YOU should clean it up. If anyone offers to help you, then you can graciously accept their help. To expect it is incredibly rude.
2007-08-11 13:27:44 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa the Pooh 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know what you should do? Clean up your own house instead of treating the women like your maids. Do it yourself. We women deserve more respect than what you men give us.
2007-08-11 13:28:59 · answer #10 · answered by Puss In Suit 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋