I had a big fight with my girl..........?

Question

And I don't feel like making up with her. Do you think this could mean that I just don't love her anymore?
I am a person who can fight with my lover and forgive the next minute or find a solution, but I just don't even want her touching me. I have felt this way lately and it just took this one fight to let it out. I live with her and cannot aford to move. I told her I just want a business relationship with her because all we do is fight about money. I love her but I have given up on hope of a future with her, WHAT DO YOU THINK?

Answer 1

It sounds like you know what you want. Just a business relationship. If she can't handle it, then split.

Answer 2

No, it doesn't mean you don't love her. Sometimes you just need to stay mad for a while. Terri Clark wrote a great song about it.

I have been in your situation. It can get better, but it takes effort on BOTH sides. If you would like to save the relationship, then talk to her about it. Counseling is a GREAT place to start. But, if you really don't think you want a future with her, then don't. You will only make yourself miserable. I gave my ex an ultimatum. She did not meet it. By giving an ultimatum it made it much easier to draw the line and move on. It wasn't an impossible one either. It was merely that she spend Christmas day with ME, instead of leaving me at house and going elsewhere. She left me behind and spent the day with other people. So, I left. It made it easier to leave.

Answer 3

sounds like your over it.
tell her your over it. if and when your feeling better you will let her know. get a second job for a miserable month or two and save that money until you can move out and share a place with a roomate. then, maybe once you are living seperatly you may feel different without all the pressure.
but, if you have money problems, and cant afford to move out, get the second job and save up some money for a deposit at a new place.
good luck. maybe you will feel different with time, or maybe you will get to be yourself again.

Answer 4

You can love someone and stop being in love with them.
Sounds like this fight was the accumulation of a lot of indicators which seem to indicate it is over...and should be.
Like someone suggested, find somewhere to move and get on with your life. There's someone out there waiting for someone like you to come along to have a caring and sharing relationship.

Answer 5

Maybe you should stay with a relitive or friend for a few weeks and see if you still feel the same way. If you still don't feel like you can make up, maybe it's time to move on. If you miss her and relize you still want to be with her, you should try to fix the problem and make it work.

hope I helped, good luck

Answer 6

I think money issues are the number one killer of relationships. Work together and solve the financial problems. Then when you don't have to worry about money any more, you can get your relationship back on track.

Answer 7

Maybe you need some time out, if you still feel the same after it then maybe it's a sign, listen to your heart.

Answer 8

stay with a friend or something and see if you cant stand living without her and if not and you miss her terribly make up but if you dont think you love her anymore than you were never in love with her.... you just liked her alot and i know wat that feels like but you should give it time and make sure you dont still love her bc if you break up with her and then find otu you still love her she might not give you another chance and ik that would hurt....good luck do wat makes you happy...