2007-08-11 13:01:29 · 61 answers · asked by ♥BEX♥ 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
thankyou for all your answers i'm not on about soppy relatonship 's i'm on about losing someone i loved dearly and my heart is in bits can it be reapaired?
2007-08-11 13:51:30 · update #1
only if it wants mending
dr Bad
2007-08-11 13:14:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time, wine, good friends and a night out with ShelterBelter is a cure all! Don't fall for that soul mates carp! There are billions of people in this world and I bet there are several thousand at least who would be perfect for you, so the thing is, just meet more people.
personally, the one time my heart was broken, I listened to Sinead O'Connor, drunk 2 bottles of blossom hill, stuck the old ticker back with super glue and made a complete a$$ of masel with ma pals in a local nitespot, with someone half ma age!
#Just re read the question, if it's a grief situation, then pretty much the same as above expect more of it !
2007-08-11 21:51:24 · answer #2 · answered by BettyBelter 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As painfull as it sounds... broken hearts never mend completely. We heal and move on, but most of us don't give our broken heart time to heal. We forget to evaluate the troubled relationship and find were both went wrong. Were you a enabler, was he to controlling, did you have sleeping with women anxiety, he never trust you to walk out the door.
You have to step back and take a long breather. Re-Evaluate yourself.
In our 20's we are post teen and we think we know what type of mate is right for us.
In our 30's although we thought we knew, we now think we have a better view on what we want, but not how to translate in our brains to get and make it work.
In our 40's we are set in our own ways because we have been alone long enough to know what we will and will not accept. We don't settle. We find our man and make sure he fits what we need in our relationships
2007-08-11 13:24:24 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy Shut Your Mouth 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is completely possible, it takes time. Every person who you fall in love with is going to be different and that love will be different. However, there are some old people who die right after their significant other dies but those people have been together for like a thousand years. Broken hearts mend, put a band-aid on it.
2007-08-11 13:07:27 · answer #4 · answered by pamela t 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Any thing is possible. Just give it time. It is going to feel like each day is a month but eventually you will realize that you laughed that day or even just smiled then you will find yourself not thinking about that person every waking moment. It will be really hard in the beginning but it will get better and you will see that there is other people out there. I know in the beginning you feel that, that is the only person in the world but it isn't. So just keep your head up and keep faith and it will get better.
2007-08-11 13:11:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your heart can be broken by many different people. Not just lovers. Friday, our son broke our hearts. Yes, it can be mended again, but sometimes, it takes a long time. The thing is to let go and let God have His way. He's going to work out a better future for us. Trust in the Lord. Lean not upon your own understandings. In all thy ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct thy paths. Grams
2007-08-11 13:10:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It takes a lot of time to get on with a broken heart. I don't think it ever truly mends completely. I still think about mine everyday even though it has been years and I am with a wonderful man for 10 years
2007-08-11 13:06:01 · answer #7 · answered by raven 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many people say that you can only fall in love once but i dont believe that to be true because i have had my heart broken and completely repaired it still has a scar from the memory but that scar is only a reminder to becareful but not to shut myself away from everything that scar makes me feel like everything happens for a reason and my broken heart seeked out refuge with someone who was willing to mend it and show it more love and affection. yes it is possible for a broken heart to mend...speaking from experience.
2007-08-11 13:10:00 · answer #8 · answered by bonita 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, dear. But it can take a long, long time. You'll have to accept that, and take whatever time you need to mourn a relationship lost. Let it wash over you and let your heart work through it. But when the time is right -- and you'll know when that is -- nothing makes you forget an old love like a new one.
2007-08-11 13:14:37 · answer #9 · answered by Frosty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess that depends on how broken it is. If your high school crush hurt you, yes, you will feel better in time. But I cannot even imagine how it would be if my husband passed away or anything like that! I honestly believe I would never heal from something like that. So I guess it depends on how involved your heart was to begin with.
2007-08-11 13:06:36 · answer #10 · answered by Tigerlily 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It will mend as soon as you have someone in your life that treats you like you should be treated. Remember this: Love feels good, it does not hurt!! If you are hurting right now, it wasn't meant to be and you should be relieved that it is over sooner rather than later.
2007-08-11 13:07:10 · answer #11 · answered by Colette B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋