At 37 I guess my body is starting to sag and go south. Yet I feel an urge towards the young man to love and cherish AND to lust with every bit of my heart.
But am I a waste of space?
2007-08-11 12:54:43 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Don't feel bad! I'm 18 and I've found myself attracted to ALOT of guys around your age. Just keep your body fit! You don't need to be super ripped or anything, just not "saggy" lol.
I would be concerned, however, if all you're looking for in a relationship is sex. Maybe not right now, but in 50 years that could become a problem.
However, there are alot of guys your age that I'd love to sleep with.
2007-08-11 13:49:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You've been around long enough to know how it works in "the lifestyle"! The older gay ALWAYS pays for the younger one. In many instances, a guy your age will have an older "daddy" to take care of HIM, while at the same time, paying the bills for his OWN "boy"! They ALL want a young hot stud-boy, and they DON'T come cheap.....
it's the gay WAY!!!!
2007-08-11 16:43:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a lot of shallowness out there. Everyone's looking for something younger. Actually, not just 'younger' but young. It usually ends in lonliness, judging by the experiences of my male gay friends.
2007-08-11 13:01:41 · answer #3 · answered by Stella S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's a little harder, but there are younger men who are into older guys, so don't worry... just have some self-confidence and work out a bit (don't let your body waste away).
2007-08-11 13:01:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Know exactly where you are coming from, bro!
Like yourself, I find myself attracted to younger men, not too young, mind. And yes, it is alot harder to find someone younger but who has a mature head on his shoulders.
I am 43, still boyish looking and in good trim, thanks to my job.
Like some older guys, I find that many younger men are only interested in you when you have got lots of money, which I don't. So, thats me on the friggin shelf!!
Best of luck to you. 37 aint old!
2007-08-11 13:36:36 · answer #5 · answered by Room_101 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea how a gay man would feel about it, but I think that older men are more attractive and distinguished.
2007-08-11 12:59:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It happens to all of us regardless of orientation. People love confidence, don't despair because that's a real turn off. Why do you want a young man - what's wrong with people your own age?
2007-08-11 12:59:15 · answer #7 · answered by cobra 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If a 70 year old man can marry a 21 year old woman on Jerry Springer, then I certain don't think that all is lost for you at 37.
2007-08-11 14:11:53 · answer #8 · answered by jennysmith0214 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dude, unless you jump ship, you're wasted. In the straight community 37 is the sexiest, coolest and most ideal age for guys and gals to do anything they want without hassles.
2007-08-11 13:04:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's okay, baby, there's all types. Get in shape and make yourself physically desireable to chase the young ones. there's plenty that like older, mature, ahem, "experienced" fellows.
XOXO
2007-08-11 12:59:50 · answer #10 · answered by gochefs (Geo) 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋