She's 3 or 4 months pregnant. Its her fourth child. The father loves the children. It looks like such a happy family. No one know (since I didn't rumour) that he asked me over when his wife was not in England. She stayed at her mother's with the children, as he told me. He was all alone in the house and that was totally a booty call. I'm not that kind of woman. I didn't go over of course. This happened months ago. Now she's pregnant and everybody feels happy for her. What if I had told everybody about him? I will still "congratulate" her but should I feel happy for her from the bottom of my heart? Especially whenever some other women passing by, he would stop to stare at them, looks like a beast eyeing on its prey, I really feel sorry for her. Anyway, the expected baby is innocent. It won't be difficult for me to like it.
2007-08-11 10:33:32 · 9 answers · asked by eva c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should rejoice when your friend rejoices, and weep when your friend weeps. You are right about the child being innocent. Believe me, in time she will find out what she needs to know. It doesn't have to come from you. She may already know about his "roving eye". I'm glad you didn't take it as a compliment when he invited you over. He'd probably invite a cow over if he could **** it!!
2007-08-11 10:43:53 · answer #1 · answered by JUJUBABE 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her what her husband did. She deserves to know, especially where children are involved. Good for you for not going over to the house - that shows some real character on your part. A way to do the congrats is to congratulate just her, not him. It is a bittersweet pregnancy in the fact that there is still a life coming into this world but to a cheating father.
2007-08-11 17:50:39 · answer #2 · answered by Pineapple Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do firmly feel that she has a right to know. However, I told a friend one time that her husband had done this very same thing with me. They stayed together and she stopped talking to me, as if it was my fault. I lost a friend, but I know I did what was right. She has to live with him, not me. Just my thoughts, you can take it or leave it. Your friend is not my former-friend, so she may not react the same way.
2007-08-11 18:12:33 · answer #3 · answered by msims52 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You keep your mouth shut. You will lose your friendship with this girl and you will be made to look like the bad person as if you were trying to break up the marriage.
2007-08-11 18:11:28 · answer #4 · answered by janetrmi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you and it sounds like you might be friends with her, I would tell her that her husband invited you over when she was out of town...I think she has a right to know what kindof dog she's married to.
2007-08-11 17:39:51 · answer #5 · answered by Steven's Mommy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure, he's a dog, but she's seeing what she wants to see. If you try to open her eyes, she (and everyone else) will say "you're only jealous." If you feel that strongly about this, maybe you need to distance yourself and find another friend.
2007-08-11 17:43:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually it should'nt bother you one way or the other.
2007-08-11 17:39:50 · answer #7 · answered by crappiekat1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd keep my mouth shut.
2007-08-11 17:38:35 · answer #8 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its time for the adoption!!!
2007-08-11 17:49:12 · answer #9 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋