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2007-08-11 10:27:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well to be honest I don't really know. What I did was wrong and even though there were reasons why I did it, it still doesn't justify it. I wasn't getting the love and attention I needed at home, he was so involved with going out with his friends he was never home, we were not making love so I went else where. I can think of so many reasons why I did it but none of them seem to be good enough. Yes it has been almost 5 years and I have never strayed and our marriage is wonderful. It really took me being with someone else for him to realize what he had at home. So no matter what the excuses are, they are never going be justified.
2007-08-11 10:34:29 · answer #1 · answered by Erin 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
My mind strayed away for awhile. I was lonely. My husband was (and still is) absorbed with his full time hobby in addition to his full time + job. He's not super conversational. It's easy to meet a guy that wants to talk talk! And I was lonely enough to keep talkin'!
2007-08-11 10:32:09 · answer #2 · answered by Me 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋
For adventure or mad at there husband or wife. Marriage is for keeps. To many people think they can get out of it to easy. Sometimes they think what the other person they or not married to is loving them. But, they or telling them this to get them in bed.
2007-08-11 10:33:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I've never cheated on my husband but from what I've heard it's because their emotional needs are getting full-filled somewhere else...sex isn't usually the reason why women cheat they cheat because they're looking for a real relationship with someone else because their needs are not being met at home.
2007-08-11 10:37:57 · answer #4 · answered by Steven's Mommy 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
If I did ever have an affair, it would be because something was lacking at home. Usually for men, that's sexual. For women, its emotional. Women are not men, they need to be reassured, squeezed, loved. They need to feel that their husband is their protector, friend, partner. Men need women to value them for their masculinity, sexuality. At least that is my opinion.
2007-08-11 10:31:38 · answer #5 · answered by JUJUBABE 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Gosh, I wanna know too because a married woman wreaked the same havoc on my relationship as well.
2007-08-11 10:31:50 · answer #6 · answered by HoPeFuL 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
i never cheated,but i have to say i thought about it.a lot of times guys just wanna be the guys and thats cool.but when its an everyday thing of them being at your house as soon as he gets home from work and just basicly spend the night every night.well women need attention too.
2007-08-11 10:42:59 · answer #7 · answered by super girl 3 · 1⤊ 4⤋
Lack of communication led to lack of attention led to lack of intimacy led to..... another man ready to fufill what I once had.
2007-08-11 10:35:32 · answer #8 · answered by ~♥Amanda Dawn♥~ 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
For me it was because I just wanted something new,and to just find out it anyone else would be interested in me besides my husband.It wasn't to hurt anyone.
2007-08-11 10:38:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
because my husband lie to me..knowing he was impotenet..after i was able to except it he was having emotional affairs and calling this one girl his fiance..and telling them that i was his sister...i went over my friend house to talk and i was crying and of coure he was there..but it wasnt my intent....it was an honest mistake....i divorce him slightly after..and god has forgiven me
2007-08-11 10:37:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋