An Aquarius and an Aries, what do I do?

Question

I'm an Aquarius and this guy I was with for three months was an Aries. I know we were a good match. But we really cared for each other and I came back home (to a different state) for a little while and had plans to come back. And even though he was sad to see me go and was telling me I better come back he then told me the other day he wasn't ready to live with me anymore or have anything serious that he couldn't handle it right now. He wouldn't answer my calls then sent a me a text the other night saying he was thinking about me and he'd call me tomorrow. But then he never called and hasn't answered my calls or responded to my texts. I really think we are a good couple. How can I get my Aries to give me a chance to prove that and at least talk to me what is wrong with him. He always complained that I never showed any emotion.

Answer 1

I'm an aquarius as well. We have the tendency to come off as being cold or detached when in reality we are affectionate and have feelings for that person. I don't know why but it is true. Maybe you don't show your emotions that well and he probably wishes you did that. Make sure this guy really has feelings for you because if you are so into him I don't understand why he is reacting this way. Maybe he's afraid to lose you again. Give him some time and space and he will come around. Good luck!

Answer 2

Aquarius With Aries:

Aries will be the Yin to Aquarius's Yang! Though they are the most compatible, they may not be the quote "best match". This may seem confusing, but it's not really if you think of it like this: Leo will be Aries BEST mate, or spouse, but Aquarius would make the best "friend". They do make excellent love interests, don't get me wrong, but they are not the number ones best either. Keep jealousy and games out of the picture or lose aries forever. Aries gets better with age and is very much attracted to a prestigious lifestyle. Aries needs to understand how important success is to Aquarius and Aquarius needs to analyze Aries a little less frequently. All in all, the scenario looks very promising.

Love & Blessings
Milly

Answer 3

Aquarius and Aries

Aries are clever, enthusiastic, and sparkling with new ideas--a sure hit with Aquarius. Since Aries are always starting new ventures, they're never clinging vines, something you appreciate in a lover. You're an air sign and Aries is fire, so the pairing of your two signs produces terrific energy. Both of you value honesty and open communication, something that will keep your relationship going over the long haul.

In bed, your Aries is confident, inventive, and not intensely emotional (and neither are you). Nor is either of you possessive or prone to jealousy. Since you are ruled by the innovative planet Uranus, you value spontaneity and innovation, and will greatly enjoy the sparks that can fly between you and your Aries lover!

If you love an Aries, continue. Life will be fun, that's for sure. You value objectivity and rationality in matters of the heart, so you will find great compatibility with your Aries lover.

Answer 4

Don't Take offense, just my opinion, but I could be wrong.
It sounds like your Aries guy either has his eyes on someone else or some other girl is giving him some attention.
I am a Aquarius also and I never get along well with Aries men, there to controlling for me, but my best friend is a female Aries, Every Aries Man I know is CRAZY, I never found one I was compatible with even though astrology says Aquarius & Aries are compatible, I disagree. Maybe you should just ignore him, some ppl like for other ppl to chase them.

I hope everything works out for you, but sometimes when guys start to play games, they usually have there eyes on some other female.

Answer 5

i'm a textbook Aries, but I'm female so this might not mean anything... I have a tendency to get in over my head with projects and "stuff". This leads me to be a bit out-of-sight, out-of-mind and clingy people can feel like such a chore. Aries are a funny lot. We're very independant but need people around and, in turn, I think we can send mixed signals. Half of the time, we don't even know what WE want but are convinced at the time that we do. My husband seems to made of patience. He's put up with some crazy stuff from me (no husbands were hurt in the making of this marriage... lol. :-) . )

Answer 6

Are you an Aquarius GUY, or an Aquarius GIRL? Either way, the Aries is long gone. Kiss the past goodbye and move on. Better luck next time.

Answer 7

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