2007-08-11 10:01:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She moved in 3.5 years ago on a temporary basis and still hasn't left shes my older sister and gets offended everytime i mention that i want to live alone with my boyfriend (like originally planed) i need an excuse for why she would have to leave...Its come to the point that me anc my boyfrind are thinking of moving just to lose her.... but afraid she might come with
2007-08-11 10:04:08 · update #1
Tell her you and your husband have enjoyed her company but it is time for the two of you to get your own place. Offer to have the lease changed to her name if you live in a rental. If the lease doesn't allow that, then tell her you are going to live with her to the end of the lease, but that you and your boyfriend will be getting a smaller place when the lease is up, and then she can take up a new lease with the landlord. If it is your house, tell her it is going on the market unless she wants to buy it because you and your boyfriend want to move to a smaller place. Then, do it.
2007-08-11 10:24:46 · answer #1 · answered by Winnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No excuses needed. Be honest with her, that you feel she needs to find a place of her own to live. Give her a specific timetable as to when she needs to be gone say 60 days. If she is still there at the end of the time frame, then pack her things and set them outside. Change the locks of the apartment.
2007-08-11 17:34:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you're probably looking for an easier way out of this one. I say easier, because there is no truely easy way to deal with family. I think you just have to be firm. It sounds like you have already been blunt. Give her a timeline and let her know that the free ride is over. It sounds harsh when you're dealing with family, but sometimes there is just no other way.
2007-08-11 17:12:28 · answer #3 · answered by Chickypoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mi opion is that u should say "um i think u should really get out mi house or im calling the police"(if thats to harsh try)"i want u to leave because mi bf's mom wants to visit and needs a room all for her"or"we r moving into a smaller place and there will be room for mi and mi boyfrind and your not really welcome"
2007-08-11 17:46:35 · answer #4 · answered by LUV TWILIGHT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she need help financially or can she pay all the bills? Could be she just needs a roomate (money, lonley, afraid to be alone?) I would discuss this with her first - just you and her.
2007-08-11 17:09:04 · answer #5 · answered by spider87654 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a month . tell her she has one month to find a new home.......... dont feel sorry for her..... I think you have waited long enough........ if at the end of the month she hasnt moved out, change the locks, put her things on the sidewalk.... tough love is the hardest to do...but for your sanity and life you need to do it.
2007-08-11 17:08:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Jus t tell her it's time to leave, you love her but it's time for her to go, do not be a push over here.
2007-08-11 17:33:50 · answer #7 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your times up!
2007-08-11 17:06:34 · answer #8 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get your mother to tell her to leave. Tell your mom to talk to your sister if she's giving you a hard time.
2007-08-11 17:05:48 · answer #9 · answered by Steven's Mommy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋