My friends got hit by group of gangs, i'm very sad i want2be good but thing like this happen wat should i do?

Question

we all know i fight u and you fight me, then over and over again = revenge and revenge when will it stop, therefore its not wise to fight back and im sad, i can fight back but im wise enough to know its not good to fight because itll just cause more trouble

i dont know what to do

now they want revenge and i dont want no one to get hurt what can i do?

nothing sit back and wait till they slice each other go hospital? and stuff?

my friends are okay

LOLz Jaz your funny

a fight was over a story in the pass and i do not no much of it i was just at that place and they were there and an argument happened and they start hiting earth other i was in the middle trying to block kick and punch i push them out and they hit me a litle and we manage to get get going because the cops arive and i told them to leave the area in the city, they didnt want to hit me so im fine to stay back

Do you want to rule the world and control it?
I don't think it can ever be done.

The world is sacred vessel
and it can not be controlled.
You will only it make it worse if you try.
It may slip through your fingers and disappear.

Some are meant to lead,
and others are meant to follow;
Some must always strain,
and others have an easy time;
Some are naturally big and strong,
and others will always be small;
Some will be protected and nurtured,
and others will meet with destruction.

The Master accepts things as they are,
and out of compassion avoids extravagance,
excess and the extremes.

Answer 1

I am really surprised by your question. What came in my mind is this -- Is this the wisdom i know? Are you making a philosophical situationer? Or are you into a gang of sort? Gang for us here in my country connotes a bad thing. I don't think you belong to anyone of this. It is just too far from the Wisdom i knew. Besides Wisdom wouldn't ask this kind of question because you are indeed ---Wisdom---!!! I would rather consider this as one of your philosophical question. And i will clearly say unto you --You surely knows to handle yourself. You know what is better to your cammaraderie. Wisdon has full of wisdom to answer such question.

Answer 2

Don't let the thought of revenge harbor in your heart. It will only fester inside you and make you hateful. It may lead to cynicism and treating others bad who might not have deserved it.

Instead, let this pass you by. it may have been a fluke and just a case of wrong place at the wrong time. They may never even bother you or them again. Remember that violence begets violence. Meaning that violence leads to more violence, and it just gets uglier and worse with every retaliation.

If they have become a problem and continue to harass you and your friends, perhaps change your habits. Like taking different routes or finding a new hang out place. Distance yourselves from their activities.

If they are taking over your neighborhood though, and are where they do not belong, consider taking martial arts or self defense courses. This will do multiple things. It will build self-confidence, discipline, and of course the ability to defend yourselves. Never use these skills though to bully or instigate.

Also, let law enforcement know of the problem. They may patrol the area more frequently and catch these guys in the action of bullying. police can be covert so that it doesn't look like they were ratted out.

Another thing to do is let your neighbors and neighborhood of the problem. Many times a group effort will discourage these guys and they will go somewhere else. Maybe even let these guys know they are not the bosses and they may drop their whole act altogether.

If all this fails, just go find a girl gang to beat them up. Hopefully they wont hit girls back.

~jaz~

Answer 3

Oh my gosh I am so sorry, that is intense. I dont think that I have ever been in a situation like that. I am so glad that all of you are ok. I know there is so much hate and so many want revenge but revege is hate. I think that you are doing the right thing on just keeping cool and coming here n yahoo answers to share what you feel and your worries. I hope that all is well and if you ever need to talk I am here. I often feel the same way, it is like I want to be a good person but all the things that go on make me want to hurt the people doing the hurting but then I would be no better then them.

Answer 4

You are certainly wise ''wisdom''. I do feel sorry for your freinds, but are your freinds as vindictive as you ?? You say that they are fine, so what do they say about this whole situation, will they take revenge ? or....what....I do not know what sort of freinds you have, I am sure they are as wise as you not to. But in the first place, what caused this ''hit by a group of gangs'''. I know sometimes the phrase '''there is no smoke without fire'' is all wrong, but I would suggest you also think ''why'' they came to hit your freinds, and also, think, your freinds are fine, are they willing for a revenge..or not ???

Please keep away from all this mess. I do not know how old you are, but certainly you sound young, sweet and loyal. At this point of time, just be with your freinds, and analyse who did the wrong thing. And if your freinds did, wisdom, you know what to do wisely ?/ You should just keep your cool, maintain yourself away from such sort of trouble !! You say ''they would slice each other'', which is really scary....do you have parents ?? Please think wisely, which you already did. A gang who ''hit'' your freinds, can always strike again. Your freind could not hit them back, but ...what will you do alone on a ''revenge''...Please do stay away. Be with your freinds, and being the wise one, you should tell them to back away if ''they'' (your freinds) hav done something wrong..which I feel from ur question they surely would have.

take care, and good luck...keep away from bad company, and keep up your good freindship, wisely !!

Answer 5

You are wise to not seek revenge. It is best to let the police pursue them.
If you want more direct action without feeding the circle of violence, you must change your karma. That will enable you to change your friends' karma.

How to change karma?
The few monks who know how to quickly change karma mostly keep it to themselves because they want to keep control of their supporters.
There is a group that is all over the world and has hundreds of community centers. They learned the secret from a small temple on Mt Fuji in 1926 and have been teaching it ever since. During WWII the leaders all got arrested and the group fell apart. After the war, it was rebuilt and in 1960 went international. It totally helped me and many, many people I know defeat our enemies and improve our lives without feeding violence.
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Answer 6

Call the Police.

Answer 7

well actualy if u do fight n u win u might just scare them or something. the gang might not to do anything w/ u guys since u beat the sh it out of them

Answer 8

Here we'd report it to the police. And walk very carefully, only in groups or pairs. If your police aren't reliable, move.

Answer 9

i now it is not easy but if you didn't take a decision you will never be able to stop it forever so try to make it over or get some help

Answer 10

Lay low.
They might be after you, too.

I know, it sucks.
A good friend of mine had a bad run in with a drug dealer a couple years back.