if the one u love distances himself from people by appearance and lifestyle?

Question

then why is my concern in what other people think instead of accepting him as is

Answer 1

No man is an island. While we're constantly told that we shouldn't worry what other people think, the truth is that we a a social species and interdependent upon one another. Finding the balance between being an individual and a successful member of society is difficult. And perhaps you are really a bit concerned about the one you love because you know that his lifestyle is lonely and you are a little afraid of becoming too involved in it?