Well I just found out I am pregnant yesterday, and because of my age I am very scared. I took 2 test that both say I am pregnant. I am going to the doctor on Monday to take a test with him. Is there a chance that I am not pregnant? I dont want to mess up my whole life, im only 15. I dont know what Im going to do, about school, my family, his family:[ HELP
2007-08-11
07:16:20
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➔ Pregnancy
oh and for all of you who keep yelling at me about my age, im 15 and will be 16 in 2 months
2007-08-11
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update #1
There is a chance that you may not be pregnant, but it is a very SMALL chance. You can have the baby and then put it up for adoption, or maybe even someone in your family can raise it while you finish school. I do NOT suggest abortion...trust me on this one...
Please check this site out:
http://www.teenbreaks.com/pregnancy/pregnancyhome.cfm
And just IGNORE the ignorant answers of you should have thought about it before hand!
2007-08-11 07:27:36
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answered by LayLooLaRose 3
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If you have 2 positive pregnancy tests, more than likely you are pregnant. Sweetie, you mention the fact that you don't want to mess up your life. Well you have definitely changed it forever. You have not totally messed up your life, yes you are extremely young, but life has many hurdles that you are just going to have to deal with. It all depends on how you are going to handle it. The first thing you need to do is TELL YOUR PARENTS! You are going to need all the support you can get. This might be way too scary but you decided to have sex, got pregnant, and now you have deal with the outcome. I'm pretty sure they are going to be pissed, I know I would ( my daughter is 16). Hopefully eventually whent he shock has gone down, they can point you in the right direction. You might be surprised. There are many decisions you can make, and I'll tell you what I'm not going to get into that because I'm totally against abortion so I'm not even going to suggest that, regardless of your age. But this is the time to step up and be prepared to grow up real fast. If you decide to keep the baby, believe me there are places that you can go to help you. Some places provide child care while you attend school ex: the workforce commission. If you plan on getting government assistance to pay for the pregnancy and birth, you can ask them what kind of resources they have for teenagers who are parents. There is alot out there and that's when you need to pursue all those so you can make things easier for you.
Regarding your boyfriends family, he needs to do the same thing and he also needs to step up and support you. I'm not saying everything is going to be easy and fine, because it's not. Just remember these three things: TELL YOUR PARENTS! BE PREPARED! and PRAY!! Good luck sweetie...
2007-08-11 14:42:54
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answered by HotNurse71 4
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If you took 2 tests and they are positive than you are possibly pregnant. You are doing a good thing by going to the doctor and getting your blood taken. Do you have someone to go with you? Since you are only 15, you will probably need an adult to go with you. Tell your family, if you haven't already!
2007-08-11 14:24:10
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answered by Brooke S 5
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im sorry to hear this but i think the best thing is to get an abortion i know its horrible but ur to young to have a baby and maybe this will make u learn a lesson ask ur parents how they would feel about you having an abortion its about 200- 300 dollars depending how many weeks or months ur pregnant or u dont have to tell ur parents and just have an abortion without telling anyone some states let u have an abortion without anyone 18 years or older but idk where u live http://www.coolnurse.com/abortion_laws.htm thats the website just double check if ur state lets u do it if this happends again later on in the future just take plan B its a pill that u take right after the guy cums in u you have 72 hours to take that pill or u become pregnant its around 30-40 dollars and u need someone 18 years or older to get it. if u decide to keep it i wish u the best of luck and dont drop out of school! theres going to be alot of rude remarks alot of rumors in ur school but stay strong ! and dont let people bring u down and who ever the father is make sure hes there for u ! good luck.
2007-08-11 14:33:42
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answered by A.A 4
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You're pregnant. You should have thought about that before having sex. I'm sorry, but 15 is too young to know what sex is about and to be able to deal with the consequences that come along with sex. You need to talk to your parents and decide what you want to do-whether it's keep the baby, give it up for adoption, or abortion. You guys need to sit down and figure out what is best for everyone.
FRAUD ALERT!! One of her other questions about "finding her dad in jail" says she's 16. I smell something fishy.........
2007-08-11 14:24:03
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answered by Anonymous
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Are you 15 or 16?? Anyways if you really are pregnant. Write it on the letter for your dad in jail, and face the consequences, let Mr. Rosado know. Let eachother's families know and start working. Babies are expensive.
2007-08-11 14:56:50
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answered by Anonymous
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you should've thought about this BEFORE having sex..
too late now..
2007-08-11 14:22:52
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answered by ˚despeяate housewife˚ 6
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you shouldn't had sex then.. so in the future.... do not have sex.
2007-08-11 14:23:51
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answered by lomatar1186 7
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