If people are afraid Of getting married again because of the pain?

Question

Then why do women have more than one child in fact they have many and boy is that pain>

or do we think we deserve all the pain and just a 2nd class citizen?

Answer 1

Oh, Jennyann, you know that is a different kind of pain. I thought you were a senior citizen.

Answer 2

Well kids can be a comfort and you can always hold that playing card that you did them a favor by bringing them into this life. And then there is that welfare check or state aid that makes it all possible from the middle class taxpayers of America. Thankyou very much.

Remember, you lose those welfare/medicaid benefits once you remarry, especially if there is an adoption by your husband. So best if you have more kids by the new guy and get them on the system too! It is all in working the system. Why? Because you can. Generally people do the best they can with what they have.

Having more kids gets more money from each husband and creates more power privilidge and prestige in your life so that you eventually work your way up the social pyramid ladder getting higher pay when you stop having all the kids......from social influence from your offspring!

Get them into the social engines of the fundamental traditional creed organizations and you have a way to riches.

Answer 3

Many people don't get married again because of the financial pain it causes. You can loose your retirement benefits, or your government benefits get reduced. Then if the marriage doesn't last, you are faced with huge piles of.....lawyers and regulations and expenses. It's not worth the trouble.

We can still have a man around the house, without all the bureaucratic nonsense.

Edit: P. S. I had my two boys 16 years apart. It took me that long to get over the memory of the pain, but I had my husbands one right after the other. Third ones a charm.

Answer 4

We are under a curse in Genesis the bible says that a womens curse would be a craving or desire for a husband and he would dominate you.
So when one leaves me want another one. Then children come with that. Most women will endure anything to have a man.

Answer 5

We are talking emotional, heart-felt pain when it come to a failed marriage.

Totally different from giving birth. That pain is over within a week or two.

Answer 6

Remember that song
You gotta sing, like nobody's watching
You gotta love, LIKE YOU'VE NEVER BEEN HURT
You gotta dance dance dance
When it comes from the heart - you know it will work.

I don't know who sings it, but it works for your question.