Will you give birth to child?

Question

if you are the girl of 22 years old,unmarried,and you are pregnant for 4 and half month,your boy friend left you, he is
disonest with you know,even then will you give
birth to your child?

Answer 1

yes, im 4 months pregnant now, and reguardless if my boyfriend leaves me i will have my child, i am un married as well, i love my child, and i will have this baby no matter how hard things get,because i love my child,and the love i have for my baby can not be broken.

Answer 2

As we all know having a child is a gift from god but if we know that we can never have a future with this person then we should not place ourselves in these situations. OK the damage is done now we have to figure out what is the next step. Unless there is a medical reason for you to not have this baby or extensive drug use then abortion is out of the question. The boy left. The key word is boy real men don't leave so now the question is how will you support this child. If you know that you can not give the child what he or she needs then think about the adoption option. Some one that is ready can give the child what is needed and you can go on with your life and grow up. Let this be your only mistake and learn from it. The next time you get pregnant be sure about the relationship, be married, be financially responsible, be sure that you and your mate are on the same accord such as do you both love god. Until then always be protected.

Answer 3

Probably...yes, I would. I would probably give it up for adoption and be much wiser in the future about getting pregnant before I was in a marriage.

I only say that because I've carried 2 children to term and after the first trimester, I don't think that emotionally or mentally I could have handled an abortion for any reason at that point. I had a miscarriage with one at 4 months and it just about devastated me. I still grieve at times and that's been almost 18 years ago.

I'm a strong proponent of adoptions, mostly because I know so many people who are or have been waiting for babies to adopt. It's a wonderful gift to give to another family and of course a wonderful life to give to your child. I wish you the best. I know this is hard for you.

Answer 4

Of course. It is not the baby's fault that the mother is an unmarried 22 year old and the father is a liar that would desert you after getting you pregnant.

If you feel like you can not provide for the child, then put him or her up for adoption where s/he will be loved. But do not kill him or her for it!

Answer 5

No I wouldn't give up the child.

It would be hard to be single and 22 raising a child but it's possible. You just have to strive to make that baby your number one priority. Everything you do will be to give that baby the best life possible. You don't matter anymore. so if you can get in that mind frame, you wont have any problem, and don't need the jerk that left you and his baby.

Answer 6

Yes, because I made the decision to keep the baby for every single day for 4 and 1/2 months. And I was smart enough to realize that my boyfriend is able to leave at any time, because he feels no connection whatsoever to the baby I am growing inside.
Make your decision quickly. Next time have a back up plan.
(other than a condom I mean)

Answer 7

Statistically, I think that the answer for most women would be yes, they would give birth and they would look after the child regardless of anything else.

Putting all pro life and pro family arguments aside, abortion and adoption are emotionally hard on women and people can regret doing them for years to come.

Answer 8

No. The key there is not to get pregnant in the first place. Adoption is always an option... Good luck!

Answer 9

Yes I am 26 weeks now and when I was 9 weeks my Husband told me he wished the baby would die. So I left him and we are in the middle of a divorce but I'm still gonna have this baby.

Answer 10

Of course! Don't punish your child for everything wrong in your life. They may even bring you that little bit of happiness you've got left.