Can My Ex LEGALLY stop me from having my Daughter on the back of my motorcycle?

Question

All safety factors would be used. i don't want to hear about how dangerous it is, you people who drive cars and trucks are the ones who make riding a motorcycle dangerous. open your eyes, pay attention. i just want to know if she can just say no and be final or if she needs a court order. can she even get a court order without cause? I live in Wisconsin. thanks

This is an entirely theoretical question. if she did ride with me, it would be maybe around the block at a max speed of maybe 30 mph. when she's older, like 10-12. maybe short rides. get off your high horse (some of you) and realize that some people have common sense. i know that's hard to see in today's world with all the blatently stupid people out there. don't judge others, That's God's Job.

we have partial custody and shared placement. but because of geographic limitations, i have her every other weekend. i would never force her to ride.

Answer 1

Your ex can unfortunatley TRY to get whatever order she wants. But that does not mean she will be successful, it just means she will waste alot of time and money.

We had a client once who was seeking an order for the following when her 12 year old daughter was with the father:
-no horseback riding;
-no going to beach or cabin;
-no rollerblading or cycling;
-no going barefoot at any time indoors or out;
-wear sunscreen and mosquito repellant at all times indoors and out.
-daily bathing.

Suffice to say she was a nut. There was previously an assessment done by a social worker who found the father to be a fine caregiver and the mother to be a little loonie. The judge basically told her that if she brought another frivolous motion he would reconsider her having custody as she was going to make her daughter crazy.

The woman even entered a tiny sliver into evidence that was removed from her daughters foot in support of the shoe thing!!

If it was up to this mother her daughter would be in a bubble and end up completley socially retarded. I mean kids fall off bikes some times and scrape their knees sometimes, thats what teaches them to be careful later!

Answer 2

Many of the problems you may be facing could be just the tip of the iceberg on what is really happening in your marriage. I dont mean to scare you but many problems when they either first show up or if they keep reoccurring could be just whats showing from a larger problem that either you or your spouse cannot even see. One of the only things you can do to help is to talk honestly and openly with each other in the marriage. If things become more serious more serious options need to be looked at as possibilities. I have a blog that has more information on some of what I've been writing about. If you feel like checking it out I would completly suggest it. Read here https://tr.im/bKEMp

Love is a choice that is made everyday when you wake up and every night when you go to sleep. Some days you may not feel the original feeling but love isnt a feeling or an emotion. Its an action a verb. Falling out of love may just mean you need to spice things up a little or that you were never in love in the first place. Don't just get out of a marriage just because you don't think you like the person anymore.

Answer 3

I hope she can, not only people in cars and trucks make riding dangerous, but animals inthe road do. I live in PA and I have a bike and I ride it. But not too long ago in the news a guy was headed to work at like 5:30 in the morning. He hit a deer and flew into the air he landed in the windsheild of an oncoming car and killed himslef and the driver of the car. It was no one's fault, it was determined all were driving the speed limit and weren't reckless. it was the deer's fault. That's why I don't believe children should be on bikes, period. You don't know what can happen. And unlike a car the smallest fender bender can send you over your handle bars, and if you have a least bit exp. you darn well know it!!!!!!!!!

Answer 4

I say just keep it safe. My ex's brother was killed while riding a motorcycle but it wasnt his fault. U have a very good point when u say people need to pay attention when it comes to motorcycles on the road. Most people dont even obey stop signs much less look for others. Keep her safe, helmet. Make sure she knows exactly how to ride behind u and I dont think ur ex would be able to take u to court. She's just concerned about her child. I'd do the same, but I wouldnt take u to court if ur making sure she's safe. Good luck!!!

Answer 5

Texting lets you control the tone and establish what kind of conversation you want to have. Learn here https://tr.im/9Ppvf
This is probably the most important part. With texting, you can stop and think about what you want to say to your ex at each step of the way. Instead of reacting emotionally, you can take your time, figure out the right thing to say (I’ll give you most of it), and be strategic with your ex without saying something that you’ll regret.

Answer 6

You're a child! When it comes to the safety of my children, it doesn't matter if cars make riding dangerous or irresponsible riders make riding dangerous. The fact is that it's dangerous!
Get it? Probably not.

Answer 7

Depends how old she is a can her feet reach the pegs, must have a helmet on.I always rode with them in the front of me.Best call the local police an ask them there the 1s that will site you.Be safe.

Answer 8

If you have a clean drivers record, a motorcycle license, safety gear and a safe vehicle, I don't see how she could? Let her try to get a court order.

Answer 9

How old is she? Does she know and understand what her responsibilities are on the back of a bike.
Who has custody? Is it joint or do you just have visitation? If you have joint custody then no, but dont put your daughters life on the line just to piss off your ex.

Answer 10

1