My boyfriend doesn't always ejaculate during sex, but he...?

Question

goes soft. It's usually after he thrusts hard for a period of time. He doesn't know why, and I am curious, too. It's not that big of a deal, because it happens not very often, and usually calls for round two later.

He's not older, he's still young. And this usually happens when we go a day or two without sex.

Answer 1

Same here. Hardness is the blood moving to the area. The blood retreats at a time. There is nothing wrong with either of you.
Enjoy. And you do need the break or rest.

Answer 2

This is not to say that all erection problems are caused by low testosterone, but many are. Indeed, one clinic for men says that a combination of Viagra and testosterone replacement therapy can cure 95% of all cases of erectile dysfunction. (The moral of this fact is that the days of injecting chemicals into the penis to make it erect have long since gone, and the days of implanting prostheses into the penis - after first removing the erectile tissue - should never have been here in the first place.)

But how do you know if you have a normal level of testosterone? There are warning signs: you're approaching 40 or 50, you're losing your motivation, drive, energy, and enthusiasm for life, you find your libido is diminished, and perhaps you're experiencing a sense of futility, tiredness, exhaustion, and maybe even having hot flashes and night sweats. In addition, and worst of all, your penis may not only be refusing to get erect, but it may appear to be shrinking.

Naturally, as you may have guessed by now, I recommend testosterone replacement therapy to men in this position. And I recommend it because I have been on it for some time myself, and it has transformed my life.

Life is dismal as a man if you have no libido, aren't able to get an erection or have small, insignificant erections in place of large, powerful ones, aren't sexually interested in your partner, and feel depressed and tired all the time. But here's the thing - to deal with male mid-life hormonal issues, you need a good doctor: one who understands testosterone and how it works in the male body, one who can diagnose accurately your levels of free and total testosterone (these terms are explained at http://www.the-penis.com/andropause.html ), one who can knowledgeably prescribe the best testosterone replacement regime for you.

A great place to start is by reading about male hormone replacement therapy on The-penis.com - that's the URL shown in the paragraph above. Finally, women have objected, it seems to me, to men appropriating the term "menopause", as in the male menopause. So let's call it the andropause. That sounds much more masculine.

Answer 3

he likes round 2

Answer 4

I think it's more about getting worn out, or distracted. I dated a man with ADD that had a similar problem.

Answer 5

maybe he's just not that into you