She found out about my recent affair with my secretary and hit the roof!! I told her twice I was sorry once in a text message and the other time was on a friends phone when I was at a party. She didnt accept it and told me I was a "horrible person". Now I feel deeply hurt by this and cant bring myself to forgive her for saying that.
Please can you give me some advice so I can get over this insult and let her back in the house. I think its silly her living in a tent in my front lawn!
2007-08-11 02:39:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Let me see if I've got this straight. You have an affair. Your wife finds out. You apologize by sending her a text message. When your apology is not accepted, you try again by phoning her from a party. Your wife hurts your feelings by calling you a horrible person. You cannot bring yourself to forgive her for calling you names. Now she's living in a tent in your front yard (not the back yard but the front yard).
Just when I was beginning to think that creative writing is a a dying art!
2007-08-11 02:48:15 · answer #1 · answered by Pagan Dan 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would really like to help you. Firstly, I need to understand what you have said a little better.
Did you say that you have allowed her to camp out on the front lawn in a tent because she had called you a name after you have betrayed her in the most insulting way possible by having an affair?
Deep down I think you know that injustice of what you have done and you should really be proactive and try to speak with your partner (face-to-face) if you truly value your relationship and have any respect for her at all.
The way I see it is that you are extremely fortunate that she is even on your lawn after cheating on her. If an 'insult' is all she responded with then I guess you have either a lot more coming (she must be in shock) or you are very lucky!
You need to act now if you are serious about your relationship.
2007-08-11 09:56:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do yourself a favor and accept that you are a low life. You should be the one in a tent and it wouldn't be in my front yard. Get over yourself and see what you've done. Accept the responsibility for being a cheating scum of the earth husband. I would just like to slap you upside the head! What would your mother say.
What you did is so disrespectful.
2007-08-11 16:12:37 · answer #3 · answered by emily day 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a very strange individual, understandable she would be hurt. There is not simple answer. She doesn't trust you and you no doubt broke her heart. A couple of words said in angst vs your actions is totally acceptable given the gravity of the situation. I think it is really her who should feel her the most. You are being quite selfish on this occasion.
2007-08-11 09:48:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a liar and a cheat, its not an insult. Let her back in to get her stuff, if the house belongs to you. If not, be prepared to lose it, because she's asking Yahoo Answers what to do about your loser behind, and we are advising her to take you to the cleaners and then some.
2007-08-11 10:02:42 · answer #5 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do your wife a huge favor: DO NOT try to fix the marriage. she is better off without you...here is the funny part, i dont know either of you and i can make that judgement, ironic hu? u seem like a jerk. if i was your wife, you would be the one sleeping on the curve (not even in the damn front yard) you got too nice of a woman.
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2007-08-11 14:32:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke a sacred trust and vow to her and you are upset she called you a name? I think you better get used to it as there will probably be many names thrown your way if it goes to divorce.
2007-08-11 09:52:31 · answer #8 · answered by bmetjerry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here. Be hurt by me, too. You are a horrible person.
2007-08-11 09:48:19 · answer #9 · answered by jokerthefreak1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋