2007-08-11 01:20:33 · 14 answers · asked by Eric Chua Yanshan Maynas 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
When in a relationship, you may find that if it is something your partner agrees with, they will let you "borrow" some of their courage. But this is a double edged sword. If it is something they are against, or something that may put your relationship in jepordy, your significant other may hinder you, causing a battle on two fronts, which will quickly drain your courage.
2007-08-14 03:19:25 · answer #1 · answered by keeperofusedshadows 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I am in a relationship I find that I get too comfortable and I don't try as hard. But when I am single and available that's when I get the courage to achieve more things.
2007-08-13 01:44:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I try to achieve more things when I am single because I have more time and I am more focused. However, you are now asking about courage. Through my experience, it would be bigger when I am in a relationship. I am a person who needs pushing when doing something I feel is difficult and love gives me courage. Moral support is very important to me. You know, I overcame my phobia of water only at 27 when I met my lover who was a really good swimmer and enouraged me to learn swimming. It took love and a very good swimming coach though. Sometimes, when I feel like giving up on something, I always think twice after the nightly phone call reminding me to , "ay, dont forget to.........." and I would automatically say , "oh lah...." and this further proves that love can even encourage us although the person is not beside us.
2007-08-11 08:56:39 · answer #3 · answered by Vico 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
see now, I'm not for relationships. I'm for dating for a while, then engagement, then marriage, so I can't answer your question from your viewpoint. Even dating and relationships or engagements can go awry.
So that's why I respond to your question only about singles and marrieds. When you're single you can focus your future as to what you enjoy, make the contacts you want, place your money where you want, move where you want, make mistakes if you want, you don't have anyone to sway you, to direct you, to take your focus, so success is on the way.
When you're married you discuss the future and then both work toward it as a couple, so there you would achieve different things and for different reasons, and you would be mixing with other maried couples who know the reasons you want success so badly (because you want to support your children) and it's a common bond you build with others.
So my answer to your question is courage to achieve more things bigger is when you ae single or married.
2007-08-11 11:45:46 · answer #4 · answered by sophieb 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats a great question, I would say when you are married, when you are single you are more likely to take it easy and have fun.
But being married you have more responsibilites, so having the right house, car and possessions becomes more important after having the relationship.
I heard it once said, that a manager or upper management cannot go out and act like "one of the boys" thats why he's where his is and they are where they are.
Its not common to see CEO and executives under 24 years of age, even the President wouldn't elect a Supreme Court Judge that was on in age and experience.
Age gets you into some places and age can keep you out of others.
2007-08-11 08:33:37 · answer #5 · answered by Esoteric 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my eagerness to achieve does not depend on my love life, all my dreams and goals are product of my own needs and wants, the desire to try harder to achieve them does not matter at all whether "i'm single & available" or "when in a relationship"...â¥...there even was a time in my life that being in a relationship held me back in pursuing my dreams which I now regret when looking back...i've learned my lesson well with that...^_^...
2007-08-11 08:31:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think a male would want to achieve more when he has a woman to make a good life for her
2007-08-11 23:35:48 · answer #7 · answered by ausblue 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Both.... I do not allow the relationship to come in the way of achieiving something. But to really look back when I was alone the courage to acheieve is more... as there are no distrubances............
2007-08-12 08:33:49 · answer #8 · answered by Neo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
both ways. you can be successflul even when you are single. but when you have a caring partner your courage is strengthened and motivates you to become a winner.
2007-08-12 03:07:17 · answer #9 · answered by sandhya p 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In relationship as one gets moral support and help. Unity is strength.
2007-08-11 23:10:54 · answer #10 · answered by baba 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋