Well theres this girl i dated...?

Question

Shes been my friend for 3 years, we've been dating the past 6 months and we were both happy...well atleast i thought i recently gave her a bracelet for our 6 months together...and then outta the blue she starts with this your a jerk...and then it changed to im not good enough then it went to ive been cheating on you with someone for a month(although i think thats a lie) the only thing shes sticking with constantly is i deserve better and this happened about a week ago and shes asked if we are still friends and i dunno what to do? any thoughts would be most helpful? thanks in advance

Answer 1

There are ups and downs to being freinds first! You see some ppl are friends and become involved and that sometimes works out for a little while and most of the time things become weird only becasue you were previously friends for so long! It sounds to me that your girlfriend is trying to use every excuse to split up! you havent told me that you have done anything wrong! so all i can say is she doesnt want to be with you! she asks you tyhough if you can still be friends! that right there shows that once you became more than friends things became confusing for her and she realized that she liked you better in the frieend category. She doesnt want to come out and say that to you so she is looking for everyother excuse in the book! let her go, you cant force someone to be in a relationship with you and wouldnt want to be with someone who doesnt want the same with you!? right! you will meets someonelse, dont worry!

Answer 2

This girl has given you a ticket out. From what is going on it appears that you need to take her advise and leave. Since ya'll are friends, maybe this is something that can be resolved later. The same exact thing happened with my boyfriend (now husband). It was on Valentine's day as a matter of fact, and we were supposed to exchange love letters. Well in his letter he pulls the same thing as your girlfriend. He was right, he was not good enough for me and had been cheating on me. I kicked his *** to the curb. It took years for us to get back together, although our friendship remained in tack. So, follow her advice, let her go. If it is meant to be, she'll come back to you more mature and ready for a real relationship.

Answer 3

Give her space. Stop talking to her till she gets her thoughts in order. Right now you are just looking to get hurt with what she is telling you. Give her the space and yourself the space to really think about the situation.

Answer 4

OK she probably did something and is scarred you will find out!so just become Friends with her because she could become close to you and end up telling you whats wrong which can then fix you relationship.plus you gain trust! good luck

Answer 5

Let her go. It really is that easy. You do not want to marry this person because people like that do not change..and it usually gets worse. You do not deserve her abuse, sir. Let her go.

Answer 6

Complicated huh?
I think she just wants somebody else to be her boyfriend. Hm. If that's what she wants, then nobody can help you man. You can find another girl.

Answer 7

Dude, this is her way of dumping you, and trying to keep you as a friend... throw her to the dumpster and move on

Answer 8

if she betryed you as a girlfriend (and sorry for your pride but I doubt somebody would say that lying) she would do it as a friend. not worth being friend of somebody like her. just tell her kindly that you don't want anything to do with her.

Answer 9

it's a good thing you got rid of her. see if you can get back the bracelet too.

Answer 10

i think you should sit down and calmly talk about it if wat u dont wanna hear turns out to be tru then dont overact cause shell get upset to. If she says she isnt good enough tell her how u feel about her and try to change her mind.