2007-08-11 00:15:18 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
as long as your both consenting adults... go for it, on the other hand , you seem to have an age issue yourself. continue with the way things are going now, and if it is meant that you "go for it" it will happen
muaahhhhh:)
good luck
2007-08-11 01:31:26 · answer #1 · answered by firstkiss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, 20 years is far too big a gap.
Whilst it is easy to hold onto the 1-2 stories of couples with such an age-gap staying together, you need to realise that the vast majority of relationships like that end.
Often families don't approve and feelings change (usually in the younger person when they mature a bit).
2007-08-11 07:20:33 · answer #2 · answered by Adam L 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
20 years is a big gab. She'll be 60 when you're 40. Now it could be fun, but once she becomes older and can't keep up with you, then that'll be the problem. How will you enjoy carnival rides and other simple things? You should think about the relationship in the long term.
2007-08-11 07:22:56 · answer #3 · answered by Joshu@ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here are many possible reasons why you shouldn't. If you didn't know instinctively there is something wrong with it, you wouldn't be asking us for approval, after all, we are complete strangers.
Do you have a history this sort of thing. Have you been referred for treatment. Are you on any registries.
Are you simply unable or too cowardly to have a relationship with a real woman. Are you intimidated by adult gals?
There are many questions you should ask your self and here.
Do you really want to spend the rest of your life as a baby sitter / father figure?
2007-08-11 07:23:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how old you are in your under age it will be an offence for her to even think of doing anything with you.
other wise if the ages are a consent age then go for it.
2007-08-11 07:20:44 · answer #5 · answered by Jim Bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love one another what has age got to do with it? If you are worrying about the age gap then you are not in love!
2007-08-11 07:21:05 · answer #6 · answered by witchnanny 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is up to you, but if it were me, I wouldn't ,because 20 years is two generations apart age wise. That is too wide of a gap to suit me.
2007-08-11 07:18:35 · answer #7 · answered by WC 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can go for it if she is younger to you 20 years. You should not if you are younger to her 20 years.
2007-08-11 07:22:40 · answer #8 · answered by sv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you haven't told your age you might be 10 and she 30 in this situation she using you.
if your 20+ she is 40+ than you shell know if she love you or just using you
2007-08-11 07:19:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
age is just a number for you to count, coz when it come to love age does not matter.... eventhough you are 10,20 or even 30 year gap
2007-08-11 07:20:56 · answer #10 · answered by Einstein 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋