Does it hurt?

Question

Ok i know this is very personal but i need to know! Does it hurt when you have sex? I dont know! I want to know because i need to learn some day!

Ok, some of you know i am 12 years old! But no im not in a realashonship anymore but i dont want to have sex now! i am just wondering so i know and stop wondering!

Answer 1

According to one of your other questions, you are only 12 years old.

You should not have to worry about sex until you are at least 18 years old and you are involved in a committed relationship. It is even safer if you remain a virgin until you are married.

That said, many women will tell you that the first time can be a bit painful.

Please do not allow a guy to get you into the bedroom until you are actually old enough to raise a child if an unplanned child comes about. If you are not old enough to take care of a child, chances are that the father will no be old enough either and you might live with regrets later.

When you graduate high school, would you choose to possibly travel or go to college or would you choose to be an unwed, single parent who has to put the child first.

Unplanned pregnancies tend to hurt the mother more than the father in most cases.

You have a lot of time before you should be thinking about sex.

Good luck and all the best to you!

Answer 2

Yes 4 the first time when u have but its not in all girls. idont have sex as i m of only 16 n if u r under 18 than its not good 4 u 2 do sex as after this many changes occurs in body. but its gud u should know about this.

Answer 3

From this question I take it your a virgin. Yeah it kinda hurts the first time you have sex, but wait until your comfortable. You should never feel pressured into having sex and you certainly should never let anyone hurt you. So just be carefull and wait a while until your completely sure because you can't take it back once it's over.

Answer 4

Everyone is different. For some girls, it hurts a lot. For some, they barely notice it. It's hard to know which it'll be for you until the time comes.

I hope that time is a far away thing in the future, though. Lots of things to worry about in that department.

Answer 5

You must be contemplating intercourse if you are asking. For some young women your first sexual experience may cause you some pain. Either because you are not lubricated enough and/or because your hymen is still intact. Also the stress and anxiety you will feel on your first sexual interlude will be enough to cause you to feel pain. Please wait until you are with the right person who you LOVE, not lust for. There is no shame in waiting.

Answer 6

Usually (for the girl) it does hurt the first time. Just make sure that you are ready (physically and mentally). Being tense will make things hurt worse. Also, your partner should be aware that it is your first time.

Answer 7

for girls, yes. because guys have to plug their penis into ladies' vaginas. in some situations, girls may not be able to have a good sex for the 1st few times. guys are fine whereas girls will be sweating & their faces gone very red even though the air conditioner is on!!

somedays, you'll experience it & knows how it feel

Answer 8

The first time, yes a little. How old are you?

Answer 9

It is a bit painful, but your partner has a lot to do with how well your first experience goes.

Make sure it is a pleasant one, becauz you will never 4get it.

Answer 10

Yes,it does but the feeling fades out when you are totally into it making it enjoyable.