Problem staring at women ?

Question

Looking at porn has caused me to sometimes inappropriately catch myself looking at women too long where i tend to stare and get caught. I don't like the fact that i started doing this and its led me to avoid talking to women because i feel bad that i do this to them. How can i stop this behavior ?

Answer 1

Try to look at women simply as people, not women. We actually have personalities, not just bodies. You might want to imagine women as men, or try to imagine their bodies as just a blur, that might work. If not, you might want to so a hypnotherapist... a friend of mine did it, and it worked. Good luck.

Answer 2

STOP watching porn. Objectifying women in cyberspace is just as wrong as doing it in real life, PLUS, it is addictive. It is a behaviour, you started it, so YOU CAN STOP!!!! Get a life with friends. Be social. Get out of the house. I never started staring at people but I watched porn too much. I quit & you can too. Oh, I am a woman, so it's not just a guy thing, either.
GOOD LUCK!!!

Answer 3

if u think it started with porn cut out or least down on it. Also maybe an efort to hold eye contact will keep ur eyes away from ummmm hope this helps. u could also wear dark shades so people don't ur staring but wil look odd at nite indoors but good 4 beach

Answer 4

Imagine an invisible, undetectable force that's powerful
enough to override your sense of reason yet draws you
to someone with an almost animal passion. These aren't
Cupid's mythological arrows, but real shots of human
pheromones.

http://health.discovery.com/centers/sex/aphrodisiacs/phermones.html

Welcome to The Scent of Eros:
Mysteries of Odor in Human Sexuality -

'Scientists in Philadelphia have established for the first
time that the human body produces pheromones, special
aromatic chemical compounds discharged by one individual
that affect the sexual physiology of another'....

http://www.athenainstitute.com/discovery.html

Do pheromones work in human sexual attraction?

They may be odorless and colorless and their function may be
mysterious, but human pheromones at last have the zest of
scientific truth. Researchers at the University of Chicago
have demonstrated that compounds swabbed from the
'underarms' of young women at different times of the month
can alter the length of other women's menstrual cycles,
compressing or expanding the cycles in predictable
fashion....

http://www.ishipress.com/humanodo.htm

http://www.cnn.com/HEALTH/9803/11/pheromones/index.html

What is the force that lights the fuse between two
complete strangers? What current pulses through their veins,
engorges their hearts, occupies their minds and numbs their
texting fingers? Ah, if only

I knew. As magic formulas go, sexual chemistry must surely
be the most valuable. It's intoxicating effects are more
pleasurable and more powerful than any drug and when it hits,
it hits hard. There are the rushes of ecstacy, the gut wrenching
anticipation, fluttering, dizziness, and the diminished
concentration that turns day-dreaming into a full-time job.
And then there are the side effects. A positively Colombian
annihilation of appetite and its confidence- boosting by-product,
weight loss. And it is free. And it is legal. It is bloody amazing.

But no one knows what "it" is. Scientists have managed to
map our genetic blueprint. They understand the subtleties
of hormones and the complexities of the emotional brain.
But the thing that makes two people click remains a mystery.
Theories abound as to what, or why. Those looking for a
magic bullet (or Cupid's arrow) tend to favour the notion
of pheromones - scents secreted by the sweat glands in the
'armpits' and pubic hair. And the relatively recent discovery
of the vomeronasal organ, a small chemo-sensory structure in
the human nose, lends the concept some weight.

http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_qn4159/is_20030629/ai_n12741733

Science of Love - Cupid's Chemistry:

There are, in fact, three distinct stages of love; each with
their own characteristic emotional profile and scientific explanation.

First is lust. Lust is driven by our sex hormones testosterone
and oestrogen. These hormones are what get us 'out on the pull'.
After lust comes attraction. This is the love-struck phase;
the time when we lose our appetite, can't sleep, and can't
concentrate. This is what we know as falling in love.

http://www.thenakedscientists.com/HTML/articles/article/clairemcloughlincolumn1.htm/

I practice meditation and Yoga to overcome the problem
to a major extent.

Answer 5

Forget what you saw in porn. Be positive to women because your mother is a woman. Without your mother you'll not be in this beautiful world. Women are beautiful for all those who see beauty in them. They are great helpers and movers of society. They are your inspiration if you want to be successful in life. Try your best to associate with women and you'll discover their greatness.

Answer 6

why women wear sexy cloth?

of course they want to attract men. so u should not feel guilty for looking at them unless u are peeking panties.

looking at women bodies is not guilty unless u touch their sensitive parts.

if u get caught,u ask them "looking women are wrong?"

Answer 7

You are guilty conscious.Behave normally with everybody irrespective of man or woman.Porn is porn,normal life is different.Be easy with everyone.

Answer 8

Buy reflective shades.